The Yellow Bridge

Later

2012-02-09T19:47:00.001-08:00

Gater

Revising

2012-02-08T19:54:00.000-08:00

noun

a summing up; summary.

a brief written account of personal, educational, andprofessional qualifications and experience, as thatprepared by an applicant for a job.

I'm working on it tonight trying to revamp and revise!

It was a good day for all of us today. Bible study this week had a great topic that hits most of us - I am undisciplined. It was very good - even talked about how Paul struggled with this. I will try to tell you more about this soon - but as for now - I must be disciplined and complete this revision!

Keep Going

2012-02-07T17:36:00.000-08:00

Becca wanted me to post this. We are all trying to change our eating habits and exercise habits. We could all stand to lose weight and get healthy. We are making several changes. We are lowering and eventually eliminating sodas. We are drinking more water. We are trying to select healthier options for meals and snacks. We are also adding exercise to our daily routines. Hopefully - we will find this true at 4 weeks, 8 weeks and 12 weeks and beyond. Tim mentioned that he now runs 3 miles 3 times a week - who knows maybe next year we will be running right along side him!

I took my first step on that other issue today - it was a good experience - I will keep going and hopefully see some excellent results before long.

Going, Asking and Taking that Step

2012-02-06T18:35:00.000-08:00

Ok guys - I need your prayers.

It is exciting and a little scary, but I'm taking a step.

Super Bowl Sunday

2012-02-05T14:16:00.000-08:00

We always watch the Super Bowl. It is a big event and something we look forward to each year, some years more than others depending on who is playing. Part of our celebration is the food. Yummy snacky not so good for you, high fat good tasting food. Our menus in years past might consist of mexican fair - taquitos, mini tacos, chips, salsa, queso, seven layer dip and more. Some years it was pizza or little smokies -just yummy but less than healthy food. This year, however we have made a few adjustments. We are still snacking but tried to pick things we like that are actually healthy too.
Here is what we selected:

Veggie Tray - with Homemade Ranch Dipping Sauce

Pita Pockets for our Sandwiches

Tuna Salad - Charles' Recipe

Sushi!!!!

Shrimp Ring

Who are we routing for this year?!?- NEVER the Giants - so we will go with the Patriots!

The day

2012-02-04T18:57:00.001-08:00

Woke up early
Chuck did his thing
Grits and eggs for breakfast
Found an interview jacket/cami
Charles made a delicious beef/almond stir fry for lunch
Charles and I went shopping at Sam's - went to new one - it is actually under the Walmart
Chicken Salad for dinner
Watched Limitless with the fam

The Glad Game

2012-02-03T20:27:00.001-08:00

One of my favorite movies is Pollyanna. It's about a sweet little orphan girl who went to live with her wealthy aunt after her missionary parents passed away. Her aunt is cold and bossy and most people in the town are unfriendly and distant. Pollyanna brings up the "glad game" in one of the scenes. The house staff is grumbling and complaining about how horrible Sunday's are and how much they dread them. After explaining their reasons for complaint, they very sarcastically ask Pollyanna - "Ok, now what can you possibly find to be glad about that?!?" She is quiet for a moment, thinking very intently then suddenly replies - "It's six whole days until it comes around again!" She encourages and uplifts those around her in the movie. She is positive and looks for the good in everything. Her attitudes in this movie make me think of this.

1 Thessalonians 5:11-24

¹¹ Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

¹² Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. ¹³ Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other.¹⁴ And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. ¹⁵ Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.

¹⁶ Rejoice always, ¹⁷ pray continually, ¹⁸ give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

¹⁹ Do not quench the Spirit. ²⁰ Do not treat prophecies with contempt ²¹ but test them all; hold on to what is good, ²²reject every kind of evil.

²³ May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. ²⁴ The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.

I woke up this morning, knowing this is what I wanted to write about. Guess what? - I had a very hard time following this today! It was ONE of THOSE days today. I am thankful, I am glad - just completely overwhelmed. Praise the Lord for my sweet husband, kids, parents, and friends that are encouragers. Sorry if you suffered my moments of "non-gladness" today - the discussions and rantings of my frustrations. As my sweet Charles pointed out - there are times when you must change your circumstances due to abuse, being taken advantage of, or most importantly God's leading. I am on the hunt and praying God will open that exact door which is going to be so extremely amazing and make me glad! I appreciate and treasure your encouragement and prayers! Many blessing and much love to all of you!

The Breakfast Club

2012-02-02T18:50:00.000-08:00

I love our breakfast club. I've been missing it the past few weeks and glad we decided to get together today. We often go to a local McDonalds - it makes it more fun for the younger kiddos. Today, however a couple of the bigger "kids" had to explore the new play place.

Great Night

2012-02-01T20:00:00.001-08:00

Wednesday's are always a favorite. Becca wore her cute little top she bought in FL to youth group and they had a great night discussing Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. Chuck enjoyed his college Bible study led by a guest speaker. They talked a lot about work. He and I also had a long discussion about work that began due to the little old man that decided he must carry on a conversation with him at Jack in the Box earlier. Chuck wasn't too fond of some of his advice. I told him maybe it was an angel sent his way.
My study was good - we discussed thorns. It was very interesting and always refreshing. The ladies in our prayer group are growing closer, learning and sharing more with each other each week- it's sweet getting to know the other ladies a little better. There are so many thorns, so many burdens that each shared - thankful for El Shaddai and his sufficiency! It's amazing when we open up, when we expose ourselves and become transparent - what a blessing we can become to others. Don't hide because you suffer a thorn - allow God to use it to show off His Glory! This is an area we can boast and delight that HE is ENOUGH!

Ho Hum Kind of Day

2012-01-31T18:06:00.000-08:00

It was a ho hum kind of day, nothing too exciting happened. Charles wasn't feeling the best - seems to have a touch of the stomach bug but is feeling a little better this evening. The kids had an uneventful day and work was fine. There was plenty to do and more piled on top of that, seems to remain the same there. I'll be hunting and searching and waiting for direction - that door will be opening soon.
It's time to give the boys a haircut. Time to get out the clippers and give them a buzz!

Made me think...What Power!

2012-01-30T19:02:00.000-08:00

It was a good day today. I dreaded getting back to work - but it was a good day - got lots done - made a nice size dent in the pile that grew last week. Becca and Chuck and a productive school day and Dad got to mess with his camera and tweak some of his photos from the trip. My suitcase is still waiting on me - guess I should go unpack it. Becca and I headed to the grocery and picked up a few things for the week.

I sat here for an hour trying to figure out what to write about - guess it's jet lag (ha ha) couldn't come up with a definite topic so just wrote about the day. One more thing I want to share is...

I got a little behind on reading the devotions that I subscribe to and was trying to catch up a little earlier today. I read one that made me think and peaked my interest. Here it is...
Greater Works Shall You Do
TGIF Today God Is First Volume 2, by Os Hillman
01-30-2012

"Jesus of Nazareth was a man accredited by God to you by miracles, wonders, and signs, which God did among you through him, as you yourselves know." (Acts 2:22)

Jesus did all of His miracles as a man, not as God. Let that sink in. This is a profound truth that has major implications for you and me. It changes everything.

Pastor Bill Johnson writes: "Jesus could not heal the sick. Neither could He deliver the tormented from demons or raise the dead. To believe otherwise is to ignore what Jesus said about Himself, and more importantly, to miss the purpose of His self-imposed restriction to live as a man.

Jesus said of Himself: "I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does (John 5:19-20)." In the Greek language the word 'nothing' has a unique meaning -- it means NOTHING. Just like it does in English! He had NO supernatural capabilities whatsoever!

While He is 100 percent God, He chose to live with the same limitations that man would face once He was redeemed. He made that point over and over again. Jesus became the model for all who would embrace the invitation to invade the impossible in His name. He performed miracles, wonders, and signs, as a man in right relationship to God... not as God.

If He performed miracles because He was God, then they would be unattainable for us. But if He did them as a man, I am responsible to pursue His lifestyle. Recapturing this simple truth changes everything... and makes possible a full restoration of the ministry of Jesus in His Church. "[1]

Jesus said you and I will do even greater works than He did. "I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father." (John 14:12-13)

The question for each of us is, "How dependent and obedient to the Holy Spirit are we so we can experience this same power?"

[1]Bill Johnson, When Heaven Invades Earth, Destiny Image, p. 29, Shippensburg, PA 02003

Today God Is First (TGIF) devotional message, Copyright by Os Hillman, Marketplace Leaders.

Home Sweet Home from one of the best vacations ever!

2012-01-29T19:09:00.000-08:00

The end of a vacation is always two fold. We hate to leave but we can't wait to get back to home, sweet home. We had the most wonderful week. We spent time with so many we love, got to see so many new and exciting things, ate wonderful food, were busy, relaxed and just had a totally amazing time. Always when we leave Gramma and Grampa there is some sadness because we miss them so much and wish we were closer, now we've met Scott, Melissa and Jackson in person creating another sad parting. I saw something recently that is fitting to this thought....

Don't cry because it's over -

Smile because it happened!

We are so thankful for the time we got to spend with each and everyone of you this week - family and friends. We love you dearly and can't wait to see you again soon!

Jackson playing on the iPad

Scott chatting with Charles

Jackson and Becca playing Monopoly

It was a great lunch - getting to know each other even better.

We went through our check point and were lined up to get on the plane.

Then the airline security starting scouring the area. They picked, who they apparently thought were the possible terrorists, which would soon be boarding our plane. Who do you imagine they selected???

Hmm - what do you think? Does she look to be a threat?

She passed the inspection with flying colors.

People are so funny - this lady who was standing in front of Dad - was looking Becca up and down while they searched her bag like she was some kind of criminal.

You know me - ha ha - I just had to take a picture - I guess she didn't like me snapping pictures either!

hehehe

We had great flights home - touched down in San Antonio for about 30 minutes then landed safely in Dallas. Thanks to Tim and Misti for the the taxi ride home - it is so appreciated.

It was great to be home and so nice to be back with Chuck and Major.

Taco Bueno for dinner - and hopefully a good nights rest.

Night all!

Shopping and Swimming

2012-01-28T06:22:00.000-08:00

It's another beautiful sunny day in Florida. We did a little shopping. Bealls outlet is always fun - kind of a treasure hunt! Becca found the cutest little dress for her chapel dress on her upcoming mission trip. I bought an outfit and Charles found a pan that matches our current set. We headed to Chili's for lunch - it was delicious. Gramma and Grampa had a card tournament this morning - so we were on our own for the first half of the day. We headed to Walmart and got a few things. Once we were back we figured we better get our suitcases in order. One more load of laundry after a quick trip to the pool and hottub. I'm glad we decided to run up to the pool - 89 degree pool water under the Florida sun was a nice way to spend a few moments this afternoon. Gramma made some delicious tilapia she picked up at Sam's. It was a parmesan encrusted tilapia- yum! We also had a side of corn and mashed potatoes. We had one last game of golf and then headed off to bed to be ready for traveling tomorrow. This has been a wonderful vacation, I'm glad we took the time to come. Can't wait to see Chuck and Major tomorrow.

Rainy day

2012-01-27T13:44:00.001-08:00

It's been rainy and overcast... The perfect day for a little vacation relaxation. Strawberry shortcake with Grampa, Gramma, Uncle David and Aunt Linda, a nice little afternoon visit was fun this afternoon. Becca is hoping to win our upcoming game of golf.

She did! She had an awesome last hand and stuck it to all of us! The three of us went for a bike ride around every street in the park. We got to see two of the sweetest little bunnies. We played UNO spin and Becca won it too! It was her day to win! The sudoku race was won by Dad. He was fast.

Taking it Easy

2012-01-26T08:35:00.000-08:00

So far the plans for the day are to just take it easy. We had breakfast at the Bulls Eye Bar-b-que in town. Then we drove out to the strawberry fields to get fresh berries for shortcake. This particular farm is owned by Mennonites and they have come up with the neatest little contraption for picking their berries.
Take a look...isn't it clever?

Here is a strange tree in the village - makes me think of a spider...

Becca is in the mood for swimming - we will be heading up to the pool later, playing a few games of shuffleboard and I'm sure we will work in a few games of golf. This is the life!

Red Barn, Anna Maria Island and Siesta Key

2012-01-25T17:04:00.000-08:00

The day began with steaming hot coffee and breakfast. First stop was the Big Red Barn to see if we could find some little treasure. Grampa bought some yummy mini donuts and Dad bought some shoes for the beach. We then traveled through Bradenton and Grampa told about the drive-in that he and Uncle David used to walk to when they were young boys. He showed us other streets he lived on and little memories from his childhood. Next stop - Anna Maria Island. Dad and Becca braved the chilly waters and floated in the gulf for a while. Grampa sat in the shade under his big umbrella while Gramma and I scoured the shoreline for pretty and interesting shells.

Pizza and wings from Little Caesars for Dinner. 2 games of golf - the last one being one of the highest scoring - everyone kept getting 4 of a kind and setting everyone else. We even had a short little visit from Uncle David and Aunt Linda which was nice.

Myakka State Park - Alligators - Amish Restaurant - Swimming-Golf-Shuffleboard

2012-01-24T14:56:00.000-08:00

The day started at the Myakka State Park. We went on the airboat tour - it was a perfect day to see the wildlife. The alligators were happy to pose as they sunned themselves on shore.

Manatees, Edison, Ford and Bass Pro!

2012-01-23T17:20:00.000-08:00

We had another fun day in sunny Florida. We went over and shopped a little while Gramma and Grampa went to their tournament. Unfortunately they lost by 3 points! We then headed off for another day of adventure. We drove by a local ranch to see the Elk but they wouldn't come near the fence - they were too busy relaxing in the shade. Next stop...Manatee Park in Ft. Myers.

Manatee Park

A little crab in the river

Pretty Flower in the Butterfly Garden

More Pretty Flowers

A Little Critter enjoying the beautiful weather

The River - only saw a few manatees coming up for air - their are usually more in the area on cooler days!

We then headed further into Ft. Myers - next stop -
Thomas Edison and Henry Ford Winter Estates!

Thomas Edison under the Banyan Tree

Model T

will add a few more pics later

Bass Pro - Ft. Myers, FL

Gramma and Grampa

We all tasted fried dolphin- it was very good!

Gramma and Grampa

2012-01-22T06:51:00.001-08:00

We are having a fun time at Gramma and Grampa's house. We arrived just before bed time last night. We woke up and had a yummy breakfast - pancakes, sausage and eggs with coffee to boot!
We sat for a while and visited then headed off on an adventure. There is a tourist attraction not too far away called Solomon's Castle. We went on the tour, had lunch, browsed their little shop then walked the trails. It was lots of fun and very interesting. Here are a few pictures....

Becca is ready to go...

So Many Trees -
Orange Orchards lined the way

Solomon's Castle

Our Tour Guide - Jerry

Here is some of the interesting artwork inside the castle.

Meeting Some Special People

2012-01-21T15:42:00.001-08:00

Charles, Scott and Jackson

We finally met! It was a wonderful afternoon of getting to know each other!

Tampa here we come!

2012-01-20T05:11:00.001-08:00

Preparing for Lift off

2012-01-19T18:45:00.001-08:00

he he he - will fill this in later -

Worn Out

2012-01-18T19:41:00.000-08:00

It was a great Bible study this week - the subject was about being worn out.
Something that she said really jumped out tonight.

I'm not going to avoid this or not do it because it is going to make me tired or worn-out -

I'm gonna go for it!

We are humans - we are going to get tired, weary and even worn out.
But God has given us provisions to fix the worn out.
I can't tell you how many times I have not done something because I was either too tired or knew how tired I would be once I did whatever it was. The older I get the more I realize you better seize the moment when you can. If an opportunity presents itself don't wait.
It might be an opportunity to minister, a note to someone that God whispers in your ear, it might be a prayer you need to pray or a song you need to write or sing, an opportunity to travel, spend time with someone, the list is endless. Don't miss out because you might get tired, don't put it off until later if you can do it now - God will give you strength, power, rest, and restoration.

She reminded us about God's gift of the Sabbath for rest. How refreshing and beneficial that day can be for us when we actually rest! One last thing I'll share from our study is that even Jesus rested. It's ok to say no - don't overextend yourself. Even Jesus did not go everywhere and heal everyone.

She had so many other good points in her lesson, but just wanted to share a few that jumped out at me tonight! (thoughts above come from the Bible study - Brave by Angela Thomas)
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A side note from Chuck's Bible Study
Chuck has a warning - do not focus on the world around us - but focus on your own faith! - This may be the subject of a future blog -we shall see!
&
Becca said their is an awesome video on youtube about this subject - it is about why I hate religion but love Jesus.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IAhDGYlpqY

Ok so what do you call this.....

2012-01-17T18:36:00.000-08:00

Ok so what do you call that concrete slab that is sometimes at the front of a parking space?

Becca and I ran over to the grocery store to get the salty snack for tomorrow nights Bible study. Before I got in the car I walked to the front of the car to make sure that there was not one of those concrete thingies there. When I got in the car she wondered what I was looking for. I started to tell her what I was looking for - but could not figure out what to call it. I was blank! Was it a blonde moment...hmm! As we were leaving the parking lot, I showed her what it was as I lamely tried to explain it - and asked her what it's called. She didn't know either. Hmmm! Are we both losing it?

Google here we come!

Looks like we were not the first to ask this question

the answer is not exact - it has many names

parking curb

parking stop

concrete bumper

wheel stop

So there you go - if you didn't know!

A Good Name

2012-01-16T17:33:00.000-08:00

A page from my smash book - it might be something fun for a Sunday School class or homeschool lesson with the kids. I got the play money at Dollar Tree and found the fine perfume or ointment image online.

Good visual for little people and big alike!

Using What We are Given

2012-01-15T14:44:00.000-08:00

The Lord is so good to us. Can you imagine - He has given each of us a talent, some sort of gift! Each of us has a talent or gift. Something we just have a knack for. It's something that lights us up, the passion just pours out of us when we apply it, think about or talk about. It makes our eyes light up when we think about what we can do with that talent next. You might be thinking - I have no idea what that talent is! Think about it...what are you good at...do you have a passion for something. If you are still not sure - pray about it - God will reveal it to you. I'm surrounded by so many that know what God has given them - their talents are unbelievable when used and almost always a blessing to those nearby.

My husband comes to mind. He is very wise and just soaks information in like a sponge, he doesn't keep this to himself but shares, teaches and guides the people he is near. He has a particular gift of understanding the scriptures and has a talent in teaching and explaining them to be understood easily. When he opens the Word and starts sharing the passion for Christ just pours out of his soul. The clarity in explanations and discernment from the many truths blow me away at times. He has prayed for wisdom since he was a little boy - and the Lord has blessed him with it. He also has a gift for cooking, which he generously shares. He is my favorite cook in the whole world! He not only takes those ordinary dishes and makes them into something deliciously mouthwatering - for example tomato soup and grilled cheese - but also creates amazing gourmet meals too. He blessed family and friends with some of his cooking for Christmas. He often cooks for others to bless them with good eats and to use the talent the Lord has given him. He loves cooking and would love to own a restaurant one day.

Another person that comes to mind of someone who hasn't put there talents on the shelf is my brother. He is one of those guys that uses what he has to get the job done. The first thing that I thought of, was this silly little bike that he adjusted and tweaked to change into something he could use. He wanted something small that would fit in his trailer and not take up too much space. He saw his daughter's bike over in the corner, one that she had outgrown, not too long ago. His inventor mode kicked in and he went to work on molding it in to fit his current needs. He welded a pole to make the seat a little higher and another to adjust the handlebars, just a little effort and ingenuity created just what he had in mind. It is a silly little bike, but it took care of my brother's need. I can't even begin to tell you the things he has done and created using the talents God has given him. Some of them were just for fun and others helped to bring in extra money to provide for his family. He hasn't wasted his talents but has used them daily for gain as well as blessing those around him.

Another little thing he came up with...

I think of others around me too,who have not wasted their talents.

My son has A knack for math, science, and physics. It is second nature for him. He also has a sweet spirit one that loves to be helpful to others. He often uses his talents by tutoring or helping others understand the concepts they are struggling with. Becca has benefitted from her big brothers knowledge and great explanations. He is a terrific writer too. He has written a few short stories that are excellent. Who knows- he may be a famous author one day. He seems to also be following in his father's footsteps. He has a gift for deciphering the scriptures. When they both discuss the scriptures the energy and excitement gets anyone fired up and excited. We were discussing a verse in Proverbs not to long ago and Chucks analogy brought the verse to life - he nailed the meaning and made it clear for any who heard his explanation of the meaning. He has great talent in athletics too - when he trains and stays fit - he is an awesome talent in whatever sport he undertakes.

My daughter loves art, any kind of art. She not only loves it but has a talent for it too. She doesn't put it on the shelf but continues to work at it, getting better with each project she completes. I love to see each new thing she creates. She is so creative. God has blessed her with the an artistic eye. She has helped me to become a better photographer because I see the way she shoots. She has a unique perspective and captures the most amazing shots. Something that was so very simple, she has a knack to find and catch the beauty of it. She will position her camera in unusual angles knowing what the end result will be - very cool! Art stuff has been her request for gifts on birthdays and Christmas from the time she began to speak. One year she received colorful clay. I couldn't believe the items she sculpted. Each so detailed and accurate. One thing she gets from her Daddy is that lean toward perfection. They both have a knack for the detail and precision that perfects their talents. She loves to sing and has a beautiful voice. As shy as Becca can be - she does overcome it and has sung with choirs and even performed in the talent show at camp last year. Here are a few of her photos that I love...

I think about those at church with incredible voices and what a joy it is to hear them sing. I think about those great teachers who bring such education from their teaching and insights. I think about those that have a talent for praying. Dawn was an amazing prayer warrior. I always went to her to help pray for things because I knew she would use her talent for praying so effectively. I think of Collette and her beautiful creations. Some of the most thoughtful and creative cards have come by the efforts of her hands. She is also like her brother. She has an incredible passion for cooking. It is no wonder that I must have a "getting healthy" board on pinterest - I am surrounded by great cooks. I think of my sweet friend Cindy. She had a gift for kindness and thoughtfulness. She gave of herself in so many ways to bless all those around her. She was always thinking of a way to bless another. I think of those with a servants heart. My friend Julie is always smiling and always serving. She may be teaching, she may be cleaning, she may be driving a bus - and the passion is pouring out of her because she is using her talent. I think of those with the gift of finances - they can budget and are so wise in stretching the wealth God has given them. They love teaching others how to be good stewards and have trained others to use the material wealth God has provided. They have used their finances to bless those in need.

God provides us not only with "stuff," but also with talents. He wants us to use them to the best of our abilities. Once we discover our talent and use it - I believe we will be passionate about it. Be careful how you use them. Don't bury them. Don't hide them. Use them. God didn't give us talents to waste or put on the shelf. Work hard and bless others as much as you can. Don't let the talent become your god -like some that have become famous from their talent. Remember who gave you your talents and use them for Him. He has blessed you with it - don't ever forget it or take it for granted - or He may take it back.

Thank you Lord for our talents - please show us what they are - help us to use them because we don't want to lose them. Help us to use them for Your glory and to be a blessing to others. Amen!

Ring Toss

2012-01-14T19:58:00.000-08:00

Remember this game! Becca and Misti were playing this water ring toss game today and Becca got all the rings on the little posts! YES!

Always carry your flashlight!

2012-01-13T19:30:00.000-08:00

Psalm 139

¹ You have searched me, LORD,
   and you know me.
² You know when I sit and when I rise;
   you perceive my thoughts from afar.
³ You discern my going out and my lying down;
   you are familiar with all my ways.
⁴ Before a word is on my tongue
   you, LORD, know it completely.
⁵ You hem me in behind and before,
   and you lay your hand upon me.
⁶ Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
   too lofty for me to attain.
⁷ Where can I go from your Spirit?
   Where can I flee from your presence?
⁸ If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
   if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
⁹ If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
   if I settle on the far side of the sea,
¹⁰ even there your hand will guide me,
   your right hand will hold me fast.
¹¹ If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
   and the light become night around me,”
¹² even the darkness will not be dark to you;
   the night will shine like the day,
   for darkness is as light to you.
¹³ For you created my inmost being;
   you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
¹⁴ I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
   your works are wonderful,
   I know that full well.
¹⁵ My frame was not hidden from you
   when I was made in the secret place,
   when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
¹⁶ Your eyes saw my unformed body;
   all the days ordained for me were written in your book
   before one of them came to be.
¹⁷ How precious to me are your thoughts,^[a] God!
   How vast is the sum of them!
¹⁸ Were I to count them,
   they would outnumber the grains of sand—
   when I awake, I am still with you.
¹⁹ If only you, God, would slay the wicked!
   Away from me, you who are bloodthirsty!
²⁰ They speak of you with evil intent;
   your adversaries misuse your name.
²¹ Do I not hate those who hate you, LORD,
   and abhor those who are in rebellion against you?
²² I have nothing but hatred for them;
   I count them my enemies.
²³ Search me, God, and know my heart;
   test me and know my anxious thoughts.
²⁴ See if there is any offensive way in me,
   and lead me in the way everlasting.

I Cannot Hide From You (Psalm 139)

by - Greg Long

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiRfsaoeij0

This is one of my absolute favorite pictures of Chuck and Becca. They loved making their lithe hide-outs! Who didn't as a kid?!? Every blanket and pillow gets pulled out of the closet draped and positioned to form the perfect fort! Sometimes the simplest things create the most fun and more time is spent on them than any store bought toy. They would drag their supplies in there with them. Chuck usually needed flashlights, a compass, maps, tools, cars - everything that an adventurous boy needs. Becca's supplies were a little bit different. It usually included one of her stuffed animal babies, coloring books and crayons and definitely a flashlight. The lights were a must because it does get a little bit dark in there when every little opening had to be covered. They would peek out like this photo shows and giggle when we walked by and didn't see them. They would find that so funny - we would hear them whisper and giggle. They would think they were hidden where no one could see.

I started to write this blog in a different direction and had a different song in mind until I came across the above song on youtube.com . I was reading it and breath-taken at how well God knows us. He knows us much better than we know ourselves. He knit us together. Have you ever knitted anything? My grandma taught me how to knit when I was young. To knit anything takes focus, care and time. My eyes had to stay on it as I worked the little projects she would give me. A long ball of yarn that would carefully be crafted into the shape of a potholder or some other little project for beginners. Seasoned knitters make cute little booties, sweaters or blankets. I remember an article in the paper of a girl that knitted/crocheted her wedding dress - it was beautiful.

None of this even compares to the beauty and care that God takes in knitting us together.

He knows us so well.

He knows who we are.

He knows where we are.

He knows what we have done.

He knows what we will do.

He knows what we have said.

He knows what we will say.

Wow!

He thinks about us. It says his thoughts of us are more than the grains of sand. His thought of us are precious - even though he knows us. Incredible! What a privilege.

We all have built our little forts or hide-outs. We had some really cool places that we hid out at our yellow bridge. The water didn't usually go across the width of it. There was often dry land under it where we could go sit and spend time talking, playing or just being together. As adults, we more than likely don't build our forts out of pillows and blankets anymore. Our hide-outs are more often a negative thing. Maybe even sinful. It may be a habit we shouldn't have, a place we shouldn't go, something we shouldn't watch, a singer that sings with lyrics we shouldn't listen to, a person we know we shouldn't be around, words we shouldn't say, actions we shouldn't take, and so on. We do it knowing we shouldn't. Deep down - we are thinking - I would die if someone knew. The thing is - God knows.

He knows everything about us - but He loves us anyway. No matter what we have done- He still loves us! It doesn't matter where we are or what we have done - God doesn't leave us. When we are feeling alone, like the sin we have just sinned is too bad to face - remember....God never left us. We never were alone. Sometimes that sin makes our world so dark and full of despair that we don't think there is a way to fix what has happened. At times it seems like hiding in that darkness is the answer. If I stay away, everyone will be better off. I want to wallow in my misery and despair - I deserve it. That is just the attitude that Satan wants us to have. He wants us miserable and most importantly to him - he wants us to feel like God is a million miles away wanting nothing to do with us. Don't believe it for one second! No matter how dark it is - how bad that sin was - God is right there with us. If we were to turn the light on in the dark - we would realize He is right there with us and always has been. We are the ones that can't see in the dark. Don't forget when we start to head to our hideout to turn the "flashlight" -(Jesus) on. Make sure to turn it up to the brightest setting - if He is shining in our hide-out - it will prevent what might happen in the dark.

Remember God will see us through anything and everything.

Of course, we have consequences for our actions that never effect ourselves alone - it effects those around us too. Face what has happened and let Him help you correct and prevent it from happening again. Healing happens over time - Don't give up!

KEEP PRAYING

REMEMBER GOD IS RIGHT HERE

HE KNOWS ALL

and

TURN YOUR LIGHT ON HIGH - It will help brighten your day!

(I was going to post Martina McBrides - Anyway song originally but didn't feel it was as fitting - here is the link - because I know you are singing it in your head right now....

Martina McBride - Anyway

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uLtyzRgmyI&ob=av2e

Don't Worry it Weighs too Much!

2012-01-12T19:48:00.000-08:00

Philippians 4:6
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done

I just did a search on worry under the NIV version. Not one of the references said to worry. Every one of them said DON'T worry or WHY worry!!! God doesn't want us worrying about big things or little things. So why do we do it? We let that flesh overtake us instead of turning to the Spirit. Worry can effect our health!

Ecclesiastes 11:10
So refuse to worry, and keep your body healthy.

It weighs us down.

Proverbs 12:25
Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.

We need to lift each other up in prayer and encourage one another.
Sometimes I let things worry me instead of completely handing it over to God. Do you ever hold on to something thinking it is going to be something bigger than it is? We let fear get the best of us and forget to have faith.

I had to let someone know something today and I was just dreading the conversation. I let the minutes and hours tick by trying to figure out how to discuss the matter. I was praying don't get me wrong - but I was still holding on to that fear. I kept reminding myself of Philippians 4:6 but wasn't really letting go of that fear. I finally made the call - and all was well. There was no issue, it was no big deal, the response was positive and encouraging. That wasn't the end of the matter though. Now, I needed to discuss it with one more person. The dread and fear had almost disappeared due to the encouraging words in the first conversation. Most of the weight had been lifted - but in my humanity I still had a little dread. Conversation number two had the same response - encouragement and acceptance. The fear was gone and the situation handled. I thank God for all He has done - for the sweet responses in the conversations and encouraging words.

Becca made the cookies that Collette gave the kids for Christmas - they were deeelllissshhh - thank you!

We had another great discussion. Chuck was sharing with Charles about the speaker's message last night which sparked quite the conversation. It is so cool to see the passion come out when talking about Christ!

Ranch Dip

2012-01-11T19:46:00.000-08:00

We have made our own ranch dip for quite some time. Charles has a recipe that is different than mine. I like them both. I just gave Chuck a quick tutorial on my recipe. Mine recipe is one of those without measurements - I just throw a little of this and a little of that until it tastes just right.
My ingredients are sour cream, milk, nature seasonings, dill weed, onion powder and garlic salt. I like it better than the store bought dips.

Becca is the best helper. One way she is earning money for her upcoming mission trip is by ironing - she gets $1 a shirt. Chuck is such a thoughtful son - he is making Charles' water and sandwich for tomorrow.

We had a good Wednesday. Our Bible studies are back in full swing! My group is going to be studying brave! honest questions woman ask by Angela Thomas - I'm really looking forward to it. I got to see my buddy - it's always a treat to see her sweet smilin face and share new things going on. We are changing our prayer time, I think it is going to be good. We are breaking up into smaller groups. The kids got to hear a guest speaker tonight - one of their favorites - Ergun Caner. He spoke on apologetics. Very interesting conversation on the way home - Chuck told me all about the message.

Becca tried to catch a picture of the moon and the clouds - the sky looked really cool tonight. Anyone know a trick to capture the moon with your everyday camera? BRRRRR - it is so cold and windy - its supposed to be below freezing in the night. Grampa - I need another pair of your wool socks - the last pair I snuck out of your drawer about 25 years ago bit the dust quite some time back!

Prayer Journal Cover

2012-01-10T19:07:00.000-08:00

This evening was devoted to creating my prayer journal cover!

Becca drew the coolest robot today in the journal Mrs. Melissa gave her -

it is going to be her Bible smash book!

We went to the grocery store to turn in our stamps for their latest promotion. The prizes were gone - but they are ordering more in - yeah! We chose a coffee maker and will be giving it to the missionaries next month when they have their Christmas Sunday (if they do that again this year).

Another good family devotion - based mainly on Proverbs 10

God is really talking to me lately about attitude, murmuring and doing everything I do for God -not men! He told me this the other day when I found Cindy's devotion, then in our conversation here at home, then again today when I was reading an email devotion I have subscribed too. This is something we have reminded the kids over the years....when you are hearing the same lesson over and over again - it is time to listen, learn and correct what needs correcting. I will focus on and fix it and pray it stays repaired!

Brrrrrrr, it is so cold - ended the night with some hot chocolate topped with marshmallows!

I love my silly kids and goofy husband.

I guess I'm the only sane one here....he he he!

Even the dog is a goober!

Complaint Department

2012-01-09T19:43:00.000-08:00

Do you ever feel like you are in the complaint department? Sometimes I'm first in line, other times I feel like I am at the counter being bombarded with murmurs and disputes. I can't imagine what God must think at times. We sure can be a gripey people. Once I realize my attitude isn't where it should be, I will pray and get myself into a good mindset, head off to work and then wham - here it comes again. Fussing and fighting amongst each other justifying each little grumble. It might be the task that was assigned, or the amount of work given....it might be the time allowed or the lack of instruction....the list is endless. We can come up with so many excuses. If we could just make ourselves stronger than our excuses. If it is important to us -we will find a way. If not we'll find an excuse.

"Do all things without murmings and disputings: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world: Holding forth the word of life; that I may rejoice in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain, neither laboured in vain." Philippians 2:14-16

Brother Ray was our Sunday school teacher at a previous church and he always was so good about teaching about thanks. He would often talk about how no matter the circumstance or situation - we should always try to give thanks. He would mention things like getting stuck at a red light when you are running late - take time to thank God. It might be a prevention of an accident if you would have been just a few seconds further up the road. He would mention being thankful for having dishes to do, food to prepare, legs to walk, eyes to see, and so on. God blesses us so often and gives us little miracles if we open our eyes to His work. I think of the flat tire Charles got in the van - but it didn't blow out on the highway, it didn't happen in a bad part of town - it happened as he rolled into the Walmart parking lot where he could have it repaired. When something seems hard, difficult, boring - try to find a way to be thankful. It is much easier to avoid the murmurs and complaints.

Colossians 3:17
Everything you say and everything you do should be done for Jesus your Lord. And in all you do, give thanks to God the Father through Jesus.

This always makes me think of this song by Charlotte Ritchie

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZ0-1MN1LWs

Lord--Help us to have a thankful attitude instead of moans and groans.

Journaling

2012-01-08T18:28:00.001-08:00

I recently started journaling. Heather got me started with the idea of the daily blog. Then Collete introduced me to pinterest. I saw some of the coolest journal ideas on there which got the girls and I started with our smash books. The new year brought about thoughts of goals that I would like to accomplish. Balance is my goal as mentioned in a previous post. Well with balance - there are several things I'm trying to equalize. One of which is my eating and exercise habits which brings me to my next journal. My getting healthy journal - smash book style! My spiritual life needs a little adjustment therefore our prayer journals were prepared this week. I can't wait to grow my prayer life. If there are any prayer requests you have - please send me a message and I will get you added then send up some prayers. I am truly enjoying each journal and can't wait until I fill up my first one!

The King's Footprints

2012-01-07T20:10:00.000-08:00

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there was one only.
This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from anguish,
sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints,
so I said to the Lord,
“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life
there has only been one set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”
The Lord replied,
“The years when you have seen only one set of footprints,
my child, is when I carried you.”

Copyright © 1984 Mary Stevenson

Becca shared with us that she recently read this and how special it was to her. Chuck read it not too long ago as well. It's a poem and song that Charles and I both loved when we heard years ago too. It made me think about what other songs or poems we might have treasured so long ago that they may not have heard. If you think of any - please share.

This got our conversation rolling and I shared about a devotion that I found in at work in Cindy's binder. It was a good reminder of work and our attitude. It related to Christ and how he came to earth to do His Father's work and to serve. He always did his best to please His Father. What an example! His work ethic was not only an example for "the working class" but also for the leaders. Jesus serves even though He is King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Are you a boss at your work, a mom or dad at home, a big brother or sister watching your siblings - do you demand work from your staff, children, or brothers or sisters? Jesus doesn't demand us to follow Him or His rules. He leads us, directs us, guides us, cares for us, and loves us. He gives us choices -and consequences. I think back to old kings and the rules and restrictions they placed on their people. Most required specific procedures and permissions to even approach their thrones. One would not even consider just walking up and speaking to the King without his permission. Prison or even death may follow such a forthcoming attitude. What an example our King is...He is King of Kings, yet he allows us to approach His throne anytime and anywhere we are. He always welcomes our conversation and not only hears us, but listens to us. He loves us and wants us to have a close relationship with Him. What a priviledge and honor He has given us - I'm so thankful for His testimony and example. Follow in His footprints - it's the best path to take!

Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,

Favorite Scriptures

2012-01-06T19:48:00.001-08:00

Tonight during our devotions - we all shared either or favorite scriptures or a scripture that touched us recently.

Becca shared first - her favorite right now is the Bible's core:
John 3:16

¹⁶For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Chuck's favorite right now is:
Psalm 1

¹Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
²But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
³And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.
⁴The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away.
⁵Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
⁶For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.

A passage that creates such a picture in my head is:
Psalm 11

¹In the LORD put I my trust: how say ye to my soul, Flee as a bird to your mountain?
²For, lo, the wicked bend their bow, they make ready their arrow upon the string, that they may privily shoot at the upright in heart.
³If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?
⁴The LORD is in his holy temple, the LORD's throne is in heaven: his eyes behold, his eyelids try, the children of men.
⁵The LORD trieth the righteous: but the wicked and him that loveth violence his soul hateth.
⁶Upon the wicked he shall rain snares, fire and brimstone, and an horrible tempest: this shall be the portion of their cup.
⁷For the righteous LORD loveth righteousness; his countenance doth behold the upright.

A few of Charles' favorites are:
Proverbs 27:7
⁷The full soul loatheth an honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet.

Psalms 19:7-10
⁷The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
⁸The statutes of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.
⁹The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring for ever: the judgments of the LORD are true and righteous altogether.
¹⁰More to be desired are they than gold, yea, than much fine gold: sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.

We had a great time digging deeper and discussing all of these passages. It is a joy hearing my family devouring and sharing deeper meanings while learning more about the Lord's testimony.

Praying for changes soon

2012-01-05T18:09:00.000-08:00

What if I told you 10 years from now your life

would be exactly the same?

Doubt you would be happy.

So, why are you afraid of change?

Do what you feel in your heart to be right

for you will be criticized anyway!

Eleanor Roosevelt

Let your faith be BIGGER than your fear!

These are a few thoughts I pinned on pinterest recently and wanted to share with you. I feel they are fitting today. I am really searching for a change and praying for God's direction. I have been in my comfort zone for quite a while and daily I am being shown it is time for change. I want it to be His timing and placement and do believe it will happen before long. Thank you for praying!

OOOOOOOOOO that was foolish! - Don't be an Alligator!

2012-01-04T19:58:00.000-08:00

It's kind of funny. I try to find a biblical truth during the day to post - some little example that happens in our daily life which relates to something in the Word. Maybe one day my kids will read these to their kids and they will learn something new while enjoying stories from our life. Tonight we headed out to church. Becca was just dying to get back to youth group - the holidays threw a little kink in the schedules. Chuck and I hung out while waiting for her, our classes will start up next week. We ran to the store and bought a little snack to munch on while we waited. Caramel bugles and sesame sticks with Dr. Pepper Ten is what we choose. I was looking up something on my phone when that stinkin thing happened. Shhhhhhhhhhlllllllluuuuuurrrrpppp! Chuck was over there slurping his Dr. Pepper! What do you suppose I did! STOP THAT SLURPPPING!!!!!!!! He just started cracking up! You remind me of someone else - STOP THAT SLURPPPING!!!! I've never seen that person get so frustrated so quickly until Becca and I were slurping our drinks.
So then - what did I do? Off to biblegateway to search for anything I could find about slurping. Nope - nothing! OKAY - I said - there must be something about irritating someone else! Well - God showed me! When you try to find something in the Bible about someone else - He quickly shows you - hmmm - you are the one that needs the lesson! I couldn't find the lesson that I was looking for with irritate, therefore Chuck was more than willing to find every word that is similar in the thesaurus.
Everything I was coming across was directed back at me and how I was being a fool. OUCH! I definitely snapped and was quickly put in my place! I know you have pet peeves too - we all do! Remember not to act like I acted tonight - as a fool with anger residing in my lap being quickly irritated and snapping like an alligator!

Ecclesiastes 7:9
Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit,
for anger resides in the lap of fools.

Hoarders - Where are your treasures?

2012-01-03T19:57:00.000-08:00

We like to watch hoarders sometimes. If you can get past the disgusting - it can be very motivating. It usually makes all of us want to get up to clean, organize and get rid of things we don't need or use. I just can't imagine how some of these people live. They think they have so many treasures, but lack of care and filth has ruined most of their possessions. The sad thing is some of their stuff started out nice and valuable.  Pile upon pile, they forget what they have, so many things lost, right under their noses. The unbelievable value, sometimes on trash, sometimes on treasures they exhibit is unfortunate. I just can't imagine losing my husband, my children or my home because I couldn't part with stuff.

Matthew 6
¹⁹Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:
²⁰But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:
²¹For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

I like this passage in Matthew 6 - it is a reminder not to lay your treasures up on earth. Lay them up in Heaven.   Where is your heart?   What do you love? Are you spending more time/love earthly things more than heavenly things?

A sweet christian lady passed away not too long ago.  She was an elderly woman that lived near the time of the depression. She was taught to hang on to lots of little things. Containers and stuff that can be used for this and that. Her daughter said, "Mama, let's just throw these away, you are not using them." The mother would not hear of getting rid of the miscellaneous items. Not too many weeks later, the sweet lady passed on to glory. As her daughter looked around the house she wept. All these things, so important and of such value to her mother, often the source of an argument still sat in the house. Praise the Lord her mother was a believer and now in Heaven with her Savior. The earthly things we think are so valuable here will not follow us to Glory - they will stay right here on earth. Ponder a minute - what treasures can we lay up in heaven - make sure your heart is in the right place!

Last day to relax

2012-01-02T12:11:00.000-08:00

then back to the grind
we are all just relaxin today
been a web surfer today
sleepy boy napping
artsy girl painting
neat husband is organizing
goofy puppy is playing
chilly day but nothing like gramma and grampa's
will return tomorrow
have a great day!

Happy New Year

2012-01-01T19:17:00.000-08:00

2012 is going to be a great year!
We enjoyed our first day of the year spending the day at home. We had our traditional New Years Day lunch - our black eyed peas, salt pork, wilted lettuce and jalapeno cornbread.
We watched some football.
Becca and I walked over to the store to pick up a few things, it was a nice day to get back to walking.
This year my goal is to become more balanced.
It is something I struggle with - don't you?
I will be working on being more balanced in all areas.

Spiritually - Bible Studies, Prayer, Serving, Giving, all of it. I will get very interested in study - but if I don't apply it to real life - am I succeeding? If I'm not at church or around others - do I know how I can pray most effectively for their needs?

Physically - Eat Better - making more healthy choices for a well balanced diet...Exercise more regularly - I'm not ready for the aches and pains to begin - I'm still too young for that! Help my family to achieve their health goals too.

Emotionally - the above areas will help me balance this area - be joyful- read something this week on pinterest that I liked....BE SO HAPPY THAT WHEN OTHERS LOOK AT YOU THEY BECOME HAPPY TOO!

Intellectually - learn some knew skills, read some new books, gain wisdom and understanding

Financially - budget, budget, buget - and follow it consistently and other suggestions at - daveramsey.com

Time - using it wisely...spending quality time daily with the Lord, with my family, better cleaning and organizational routines, not becoming consumed in hobbies

Might add to these as the year goes on - but my word for the year that I am working towards is B-A-L-A-N-C-E!

We had a great devotion last night. Charles reminded the kids to keep their eyes on the Lord and weigh everything according to His word. He received a magazine - one that was kind of churchy - one that we did not order. We have never even heard of this particular magazine. He took a look at the magazine and was reading an article earlier in the day that caught his attention. As he read it - he weighed it according to the Bible and it just didn't seem right. The author rambled, didn't give references to prove his theories and only mentioned one verse in this rather lengthy article. Sometimes we get wrapped up in what men have to say. Be very careful that you don't follow men - but follow God. If something doesn't seem right - it probably isn't...that magazine that unexpectedly arrived in our mailbox, deliberately landed in our trashcan.

New Years' Eve

2011-12-31T19:06:00.000-08:00

One of our New Years traditions is having black eyed peas on New Year's Day. We like to make the dried peas, therefore you can't wait until the last minute. Today we got them started, so they will be nice and soft, yummy and delicious for our lunch tomorrow.

The first thing we do is sort through the bag to remove the items we don't want in our pot of peas. Here is what we found!

Here is what I thought was an unidentified pea or bean. Charles is right - just baby black eyed peas.

Here are the little rocks we found - glad we didn't bite down on these!

These were just gross - I think it is mud goop on these - ish!

These were just ugly, deformed and didn't look healthy - out they go!

Next we took our healthy peas and rinsed, tossed, rinsed, tossed, and rinsed them.

Then we put them in a pot and covered them with water and heated them to a boil. You may be wondering why we do this - just a second, you will see!

Let them boil for a few minutes and stir them a bit.

Yuck - can you see that dirty scum coming to the top?

I usually take my wooden spoon and scrape that waste off and toss it in the trash.

Back to the colander we go - time for another rinse.

I caught the water from the pot in the bowl to show you why it's good to boil and add that second rinse.

Nasty - I'm glad that dirty water isn't in with our peas!

They are cooking in the crockpot with all our little additions - veggies, spices and a big ham bone to flavor up that juice...Yum!

Making our black eyed peas healthy, took a little effort. We needed to get rid of the garbage and clean them up. The end product will be so much more rewarding and good. Remember this in your life too - evaluate what's in your day. Is it healthy? Is it good? If it's not - take just a little effort. Clean it up and get rid of the garbage. It will make your next day much more rewarding and good! Sometimes it is not easy to break ties with that person you know you shouldn't be around, or stopping that habit that keeps getting a hold on you, but I know you can do it! Ask for help if it is a struggle, I know you have someone close, that cares about you that will help you! Don't forget that you can do all things with Christ's help - He tells us so in Philippians!

I can't believe it is the end of 2011 - this year flew by! It's the perfect time to think about 2012 and the junk and garbage that can be thrown out in your life. Let 2012 be good, clean and extremely rewarding!

This was kind of weird and silly. Becca and I pulled up to a store and this is what we saw. This lady was in the buggy. Maybe she had it on her bucket list??!!?? I thought, that sure looks like a big kid to be in the buggy. He bent over the buggy and she proceeded to climb onto his back. The first picture is him setting her down on the ground. The second is them walking into the store. A couple silly big kids enjoying their last day of 2011.

Next we rounded the corner and Becca burst out laughing. There was a "Mall Cop" patrolling the parking lot on his segway.

Next we were off to turn in our donations. We were not the only ones trying to get those items turned in before the end of the year. It must be the busiest day of the year at the local charities. Hmm - made us wonder if the thrift stores have some good finds and good prices in January.

Charles is trying to lower his dairy intake and change over to goat milk. I found him some goat yogurt today - hopefully it'll be a winner. We ran by and saw Tim and Misti for a little bit. It was nice to chat, we love them both very much and are thankful they live close by.

Tonight is our New Years Eve tradition. We spend time together - trying to stay up to see the New Year in - we don't always make it! We are watching NCIS right now - which is Becca's favorite tv show. Chuck's favorite tv show is - he says he doesn't know but I would think it is anything on NFL network. Charles' favorite tv show is CSI. I don't know what my favorite show is I like so many different shows. We have snack foods to munch on through the evening. Tonight's menu includes mini tacos, taquitos, poppers, veggie tray with lots of dips for each. Pimento Cheese, Ranch, Guacamole, Queso and Chili.

Time

2011-12-30T20:49:00.000-08:00

You'd think I would be writing some really good stuff since I've had more time lately-
.....

Misc

2011-12-29T20:14:00.000-08:00

Errands
Cleaning
Wonderful Magic Erasers
Donations for Charity
Cream Cheese Tuna - Cravin it!
Chili and Cheddar Potato Soup
Applying for a job
Trying to Organize

Soul Surfer

2011-12-28T18:56:00.001-08:00

Today I watched Soul Surfer for the first time. If you haven't seen it - I highly recommend it. Bethany overcame her crisis. If the movie truly depicts her reactions - wow - what character. She didn't give up but overcame, what a conquerer. She trusted Christ to strengthen her and delighted herself in the Lord. Her desire was to surf again - He fulfilled that desire but also gave her so much more! She has used her circumstances to strengthen herself, those around her and those impacted by her story.

Psalm 37:4
Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.

Here is the link to her website...
http://soulsurfer.com/index.html

Cleaning Day

2011-12-27T10:23:00.001-08:00

Major woke me bright and early this morning. Our neighbor across the alley must have bought a Collie for Christmas. Major and his new neighbor play their little chase up and down the fence line - barking and trying to prove they are the "big" dog of the block!
Misti came over today to hang out with us. They all of course had a game day playing video games and chatting.
I am trying to get some deep cleaning done this week. The bathrooms are done! Yeah!
I discovered something new - magic erasers for the bathroom and kitchen.
I got to see one of my favorite movies today- Ever After!
I love happy endings- don't you!
I took a little nap this afternoon in my big comfy chair. I don't usually nap because I wake up feeling like I'm in outer space. I just conked out when I stopped.
The kids worked on their rooms a little more and were helpful with, laundry, dishes and taking out the trash. Thank you for helping me!
We had tuna fish sandwiches and soup for dinner. Two kinds of tuna - I made Charles' recipe and Collette's recipe. I just had the craving for her cream cheese tuna. Charles and Becca ate his tuna and Chuck and I ate Collette's. Cheddar Potato soup with ham was the soup of choice.
Our devotions this evening were from Psalm 46. The emphasis was on being still and knowing He is God! No matter the trouble, problems, chaos, disaster or anything going on around you - don't forget He is still God. He hasn't gone anywhere. He is right here for us. There are times we walk away - but He doesn't He is right here. He is our refuge, our strong tower, our strength, our deliverer. Be Still and Know that HE IS GOD! He will get us through any problem - nothing is bigger than HIM.
Praying for Chuck to get a Job
Praying for Becca's mission trip funds
Praying for loved ones going through some big things right now - just remember no matter how big they seem - GOD IS BIGGER! He will help you through it!

Yeah - Charles got his final Christmas presents - two books by Brother Rod - Treasures from Revelation and Treasures from Daniel! He is already devouring the book on Revelation!

Relaxation Day

2011-12-26T14:00:00.001-08:00

What did we do today?
Not much - just relaxed. Another cold and rainy day, we chose to stay inside for the most part. The boys took turns playing video games. We watched a variety of movies.
Becca and I spent some time cleaning our rooms.
She spent a little time calling different stores to see if they had Little Big Planet 2. She received a little money from both sets of grandparents and researched the price and availability on line. She found it for sale in Garland. She and I headed out and bought it. She LOVES it and wants you all to know she is thankful for your gifts to help her purchase it. We all are so pleased with everything we received from you all - a great big THANK YOU to you all!
The middle of the night was not so good - Charles woke with a bout of acid. I was praying and know he was too. Thank the Lord, He helped him through it and allowed him to have a good nights rest for the remainder of the night.

Merry Christmas

2011-12-25T17:34:00.001-08:00

We are so blessed! We are so thankful for our Lord and Savior - first and foremost! Thankful for this holiday which we celebrate His birth. Today in the advent calendar we had a little baby Jesus with Mary and Joseph. A sweet reminder for the reason of this season.
We all received everything we wanted for Christmas and some added surprises too. One gift was a huge answer to prayer, so unexpected and such a wonderful blessing.
It was a wonderful day spent together with the four of us. We had a feast for lunch. A delicious honey ham, broccoli cheese rice, sour cream potatoes and peas. Pies, Pudding and Ice Cream for dessert was a good end to the meal. We watched another funny Christmas movie - Christmas Vacation.
It was nice talking with family, sending Christmas wishes and catching up with each other.
Our day was full of love and fun. I love my family both near and far and thank God for each and every blessing He provides.
Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas Eve

2011-12-24T19:33:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas Eve
We had a nice and busy day. Becca and I spent the morning wrapping and packaging up our remaining gifts.
Then it was off to deliver them to our family, we visited with them for a few minutes.
It is drizzly and cold out today.
We compiled our grocery list and headed out. It wasn't near as hectic at the store as I had anticipated.
Our afternoon was filled with baking.
I asked last night what the dessert preferences were and here is what I heard.
Charles - mincemeat pie (of course) ;0)
-raisin pie (a Christmas treat his Mother seems to always make for this holiday)
Chuck - apple pie
Becca - cherry pie (of course)
Me - I spoiled myself with some homemade coconut cream pudding
The house smelled so good while we baked.
Charles made fried bologna sandwiches and blt's along with some delicious homemade spinach artichoke dip.
Mother stopped by and we exchanged presents and hugs.
Misti came over for the evening while Tim attended a Christmas eve party with Kim.
We watched Miracle on 34th Street, which is one of our favorite Christmas movies.
Yesterday Becca found an angel and shepherds in the advent box for the day and today she found the wisemen.
The kids headed off to bed early.
I can't believe Christmas is already here - this year has flown by.

Non-Stop till you Drop!

2011-12-23T19:35:00.000-08:00

What a busy day!
Woke up - Played with Major
Make some coffee - help Charles get his stuff together for his day
Started the day seeing Charles off to work
Gotta get the kids motor running - played a song to pep them up - Good Morning!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1ovNZTpVcU
Went to McDonalds to meet sweet friends for fellowship and encouragement.
Had to run back home - forgot the gift for Tracey
Talked with Misti on the way back- left Chuck and Becca with Collette at McDonalds to talk
Back to McDonalds - now we got to fellowship
Dropped Chuck and Misti off
Headed to Collette's to stamp it up with her and Becca
Shopping was next - ugh - don't like shopping 2 days before Christmas when the whole city is out shopping
Target, Lowes, Sonic -then home again
Off to drop something in the mail and to Big Lots
Back to the house again
Call my brother - ask a favor
Run Misti home - my brother helped me out
Jack in the Box
Back to Tim's grabbed Becca
Back to the house
Enjoyed dinner with the family and had a great devotion together discussing forgiveness, bitterness, blessings, and prayer - we talked about starting our own prayer journals
Off to Home Depot and a quick stop at Michaels
Back Home
In the Backyard Sanding and Spray Painting with Becca
Talked to Gramma - they received their packages today
Becca went back out to put on another coat
Typed my blog ;o)
Not bedtime yet - wonder what else can be squeezed into the day - ha ha

Yeah! - Christmas Vacation

2011-12-22T18:10:00.000-08:00

It always seems like the work week before vacation or holidays just drag! I'm so thankful for a few days off to spend time with the family.
Chuck went and got registered for his spring semester today and put in a few more job applications. We are praying the Lord leads him to the right place at the right time to find that job He has waiting especially for him.
Becca and Misti are Little Big Planet nuts!
Thank you to my kiddos for always being great helpers around the house - It sure helps us out a lot and is so appreciated!
I can't believe Christmas is this weekend - where did this year go?
I'm off to journal a bit, watch some tv with my favorite guy in the world and have a nice hot cup of tea with cream.

A Healthy Snack

2011-12-21T19:08:00.000-08:00

Popcorn!!!

Did you know you can pop regular popcorn in the microwave? (I just learned this recently from one of my friend's blog)
Take a regular brown lunch sack...put a handful of popcorn and a little oil in the bag.
Fold it over a couple times and cook it for 1-2 minutes depending on the wattage of your microwave.

I like to use coconut oil!

But you can use any kind you like -
it's a great way to avoid all the preservatives and additives of store bought microwave popcorn.

Let's add a little pizazz to that popcorn now!

Take your popcorn and dump it in a large bowl

(best if you remove any unpopped kernels)

Add a handful of dried cranberries (about 1/3 cup)

Add about a 1/4 cup of chopped pecans, walnuts or sliced almonds

Melt a block of white chocolate almond bark in the microwave

(in 20-30 second increments)

Pour the almond bark over your other ingredients and mix

YUM!

Thank you to Anne Marie for this White Chocolate Cranberry Nut Popcorn Recipe!

The Christmas Party was so much fun today - my gift was a soft plaid blanket that Peggy brought. The only gift that was stolen was a starbucks set - a pinecone mug complete with hot chocolate. We had tons of delicious food. Jan brought cream cheese topped with pepper jelly to spread on crackers. I have never had this before, it was so good. I'm definitely going to get some of this for the family to try. Another thing she brought was an apricot cake- delicious - reminded me of the Starbucks lemon cake. We had a few fun Christmas questions to share. Here are a few that might be fun for you...

Can you name all the reindeer?

What is Frosty the Snowman's nose made of?

Which president was the first to decorate the White House tree?

Which country did the gingerbread house come from?

Here is a link to a Christmas Carol Trivia:

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/carolquiz,0,1793183.triviaquiz

Ha Ha - I got a 72%

Everlasting Love

2011-12-20T18:57:00.000-08:00

Cleaning up and Catching up at work - looking forward to a few days off with my sweet family!

Charles never ceases to impress me with how he handles different situations. Let's just say Chuck could have done a little better on his grades. Charles just talked with him about success and learning from different situations. I know his grades are going to be amazing in his spring semester. I love my boys!

Little smokies are in the crockpot and we baked up some delicious cookies for work tomorrow. We are having a little Christmas celebration which will include a chinese gift exchange, trivia, food, and games. My co-workers are great!

Becca and Misti are having fun with their smashbooks. I can't wait to see their new pages of inspiration and creativity. I'm sure they will stay busy with them over their Christmas break. I love my girls too!

I also love my God and am so thankful that He he has an everlasting love for us!

Jeremiah 31:3 The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love.

God Always Provides

2011-12-19T19:03:00.000-08:00

and

Playing around with our journals

2011-12-18T14:50:00.000-08:00

Becca's First Page

My First Page

Becca Finished a few more pages

Isn't she clever?- she painted stained glass nails!

Charles was just reading an interesting article about baby names. It gave us one more reason we can be proud to be Americans. As stupid as some of the names are that people come up with in this country - we do have the right to name our children whatever we want. There are several other countries that govern what you may or may not name your children. Some of them approve or deny your selections, while others provide a list of names which you must use to select your child's name. The list is specific right down to the spelling - deviations are forbidden. We love our America.

Poor Unfortunate Souls

2011-12-17T20:42:00.000-08:00

Whew - what a busy day! It seems like it actually started last night! As soon as I got home from work we decided it was a much needed dinner out at our favorite restaurant. As soon as we got home - Becca headed off with Misti and Uncle Tim to see some Christmas lights. While the boys were relaxing - I was surfin the web and found something interesting. I was browsing pinterest and have seen some cool journal pages lately that interested me which prompted me to look a little more closely. I found several references to smashbooks. Have you heard of them? Basically it is more like old school scrapbooks - kind of like a hands on pinterest. It peaked my interest, so I shot over to Michaels and picked me up a few supplies. I am looking forward to creating one of my own. I will post a few pages once I have a moment to stop and play around with it. Before bed we watched one of my favorite movies - How to Lose a Guy in 10 Dates. It's a cute little romantic comedy (wouldn't suggest for the kiddos to watch due to some inuendos).

The boys woke early and went for their Saturday breakfast that they occasionally do together. I made me some chocolate, peanut butter oatmeal and a cup of texas pecan coffee for breakfast. Yum. Once they got home - we prepared our shopping lists. We are trying to complete our Christmas preparations for the family. Off I went to one store then delivered the goods back to the house. Next, I was off to complete the next list and this is what I saw as I came down the road. My initial thought is - ooohhh a garage sale! I love going to sales - sometimes the best treasures can be found! The closer I got, I realized it was not a garage sale! Out there in the parking lot were a few people standing by the boxes and furniture, guarding of all their earthly possessions. One was on the phone, trying to get a loved one come and help them out, I presumed. Eviction - it must be a horrible feeling.

When I drove back by it looked like they had someone helping them with a trailer.

Psalm 40:17

But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God

The Lord not only thinks about us, but also will help and deliver us. I have no idea what caused these people their misfortune. There are so many possibilites - maybe a job loss, a sick loved one, maybe lack of responsibility letting their bills go a little too long...I'm not sure what happened. It is so sad, especially this time of the year to see someone in that position. Their need seems to be a financial need, but our needs can extend beyond finances. So many, close to us are going through big things. God knows how poor and needy they all are feeling. He is thinking about each of them. Isn't it amazing that our Creator is not only thinking about our needs, but that He wants to help us? I'm so thankful for His power, His love and His care. Our problems seem unfixable, hopeless, overwhelming and worse - beyond our control. Be careful - Satan will use that to shift your focus. Keep Looking UP - God IS in Control! We may need to wait, we may not understand the current situation, or the timing, the reactions or responses...but keep looking up and doing HIS will. He will help get each of us through, He will heal and deliver.

One of my friends posted this song on facebook - I don't think I have ever heard it before today -

It is encouraging and beautiful.

It is called Completely by Ana Laura

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcYqKuRDttw&feature=share

When I arrived home after a few more stops. I helped the Cook! ;0)

Then Chuckie Duck decided he wanted his hair peeled off -

so we headed to the garage and trimmed him up.

How do you like Chuck's new doo? I love it!

We cleaned up all that hair - seriously I could have made someone a wig!

Then off to Tim's to pick up the girls and back to the house. Clean up and Dinner. I made chicken pot pie for Friday - but we went out to eat instead. It was nice to have our meal already prepared for tonight - but the crust didn't seem done enough. I tried something new by including rice in the filling - it was good but I should have cooked it longer or at a higher temperature.

Wrap some Christmas presents, write the blog, I'm listening to the football game, the boys are watching it and the girls went to bed early after they stayed up a little too late last night!

I will be back tomorrow to add a little more about the poor souls with such misfortune so close to the holidays.

Night, Night, Sleep Tight, Don't Let the Bed Bugs Bite!

Just Being Still Today

2011-12-16T13:32:00.000-08:00

Psalm 46

¹God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
²Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;
³Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.
⁴There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High.
⁵God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early.
⁶The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted.
⁷The LORD of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.
⁸Come, behold the works of the LORD, what desolations he hath made in the earth.
⁹He maketh wars to cease unto the end of the earth; he breaketh the bow, and cutteth the spear in sunder; he burneth the chariot in the fire.
¹⁰Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.
¹¹The LORD of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.

Psalm 62
⁵My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him.
⁶He only is my rock and my salvation: he is my defence; I shall not be moved.
⁷In God is my salvation and my glory: the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God.

He Hears and Listens

2011-12-15T17:21:00.000-08:00

Isaiah 40:28-31

²⁸ Do you not know? Have you not heard?

The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.

He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.

²⁹ He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.

³⁰ Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;

³¹ but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength.

They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary,

they will walk and not be faint.

He has understanding that is beyond our comprehension!

Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Trust Him - Don't lean on your own understanding!

Psalm 116

¹ I love the LORD for hearing me,
for listening to my prayers.
² Yes, he paid attention to me,
so I will always call to him whenever I need help.

Sometimes we are faced with things so big.

He will listen

He will hear

He will help

The Path

2011-12-14T06:12:00.000-08:00

The preparations began weeks before their arrival. Gramma and Grampa were very excited about seeing their sweet little grandchildren who were coming to visit next month. They always planned special things to make the trip memorable and fun for the little tykes that would soon be running about their cozy home. Each time they went to the store, Gramma would find some little something to surprise them with, extra baking supplies to fill their tummies with something yummy, or a fun little toy to make their eyes sparkle. Grampa had a surprise that he was planning for this visit. His project was something special he had in mind for that young man that would soon be bounding across their property. He had been clearing a few paths in the woods recently and thought he would make a special path for his favorite grandson. He knew they shared that same adventurous spirit, and would have a great time walking that path in the woods. Now keep in mind - the path really wasn't that long - sort of a horseshoe shape that started near the barn and came out just a little ways down the field. It was just long enough for a five year old to create his own little adventure as he walked it, and just deep enough in the woods that we could still almost make him out as he ventured round and round.
      The day had finally arrived, I think Grampa was just as excited as Little Charles as they talked about the path. As soon as we got in the driveway and parked, they were headed out back. Grampa was talking about how important it was to stay on the path as they walked toward the woods. Little Charles was looking up at Grampa as he talked but also keeping his eye toward that special walkway prepared especially for him. They walked the short route several times together, each time Grampa pointed out the simple markers he placed here and there to help him stay on the little trail. The lead was progressively being transferred over to the young scout unknowingly, preparing him to venture the way on his own. Eventually Grampa sent him on his way, waiting for him at the end of the trail - Charles running at a full sprint as he completed a few rounds on his own - shooting into Grampa's arms as he entered the field - both of them smiling from ear to ear. After a few rounds - on his own, Grampa felt confident that Charles would stick to the boundaries of the trail they studied. Round and round he went that day mastering his new path with great success.
     The boys headed to the house, lunch was on the table and they had built up an appetite. Charles was full of chatter. "Did you see that squirrel, Grampa?" he said. Gramma told him he better slow down and chew his food more carefully or he might choke. The excitement was bouncing off of his little being as he told everyone at the table all about his new path and everything that he saw on it. Becca, only about a year old at the time, just watched and listened to her big brother, whom she adored. Quick as could be he finished his plate, and was eagerly asking to head back to the woods. "Let's wait a little while, Grampa needs to do a few chores, Becca needs to take a nap, your Momma is over at a cousins house, and I need to stay inside for now because I have pies in the oven," Gramma said. "It's ok, Gramma - I know my path and will stay on it - I've gone around it a gazillion times and know which way to go - I won't get lost," said Little Charles. Grampa talked with Gramma and said - "he has gone around it quite a few times and has followed it each time - I think he will do ok - let's just have him check in with us every few times around." A little bit nervous, like Gramma's can get, she agreed. YES! the boy yelled with great excitement!
     Bounding down the stairs and out the back door he tore ahead of Grampa. You don't need to go with me Grampa - I can do this. He watched as Chuck flew through the path and came back to him, not once but about five times around in less than five minutes. "Ok, slow down a little bit, I see you've got it," laughed Grampa as he headed to the barn. He'd look out the barn door between his tasks and see his grandson going around the path wondering what type of adventurous thoughts were going on inside his head. Gramma would come out on the deck between her baking, chores and peeking in on that sweet little dumpling sleeping so sound. She just smiled as Charles saw her on the deck, grinning and waving as he ventured by. The pies were finished and on the racks to cool filling the house with the most delicious aroma. She tiptoed to the bedroom once more, still sleeping she decided to check on her rambunctious little fellow. He must have just headed into the woods, she thought after standing there expecting the little adventurer to come bounding out into the field. A few minutes passed, and he still did not appear- hmm, she pondered, I wonder what he is exploring. Maybe he is kicking some leaves and seeing something on the moist earth underneath, or perhaps he has flipped a log to find some grubs or other creepy crawlies. Could it be a little critter that has captured his curiosity....more time passing as she thought. Where is he? she thought. Now looking nervously at her watch, she realized it has been several minutes since he emerged from the woods. Charles! she yelled...no answer.   CHarles! yelling again - no answer. JIM she called to her husband - as he came out of the barn. What's wrong he asks. "I've been standing out her for several minutes and I have not seen Little Charles coming or going." she said trying not to panic. "I'm sure he is fine, he has stayed on the path each time - I'll go check on him," Grampa said. Gramma flew into the house to check on her sweet little angel who was beginning to stir. She grabbed her up out of the crib and hurridely headed out back. By this time she could see Grampa coming out of the other end of the path. He was alone! Her heart sunk! Where is he? she said with a shaky voice. CHARLES, WHERE ARE YOU, COME TO THE HOUSE, CHARLES!   They both ran closer to the woods, yelling for their little grandson and then listening desparately for his reply. Becca just waking up, not really understanding what was happening, was looking at her grandparents who were becoming more and more alarmed. The neighbors who were outside, heard the shouts and wondered what on earth was going on. Of course, they headed over to see if they could help. Gramma in tears explained the situation, as Grampa headed deeper into the woods. They all knew too well the dangers that were there. The creek that he could come to if he headed to far in, the traps that local hunters set to catch local game, not to mention those creatures that were out their to be trapped.
     It wasn't long before several neighbors were there all heading out to find this missing young man. Prayers were flying up to Heaven, Please Lord, bring our sweet grandson back to us safe and unharmed. It felt like an eternity had passed and he still was no where to be found. Grampa came back to the path with some of the other men to try to find that spot on the path where he may have strayed. There was no definite sign of where he left the path. They gathered together and came to the concensus that they needed to call 911 and get more help on the way. It wouldn't be long before the sun would be going down. As they headed to the house a police car pulled in the driveway. The thoughts that must have run through their heads as they saw that cruiser turn in! Did they think - someone else must have called them for us...or worse yet is it bad news?!? They turned to walk toward the car as it approached and guess what?!?!? There he was sitting in the front seat of that police car right along side the officer!
    Gramma just let the tears pour, and I bet Grampa did too! The relief that Little Charles was back safe and sound was overwhelming - God heard their prayers, not only did He hear them but he answered them too! Praise the Lord - thank you for keeping our favorite grandson safe! Grampa headed over to the officer to discuss what had happened. Grampa explained their end of the story and then listened to what the officer reported. His grandson had made it all the way through the woods, over the creek and out the other side to the street past their little forest. He had come out on a property where a family happened to be outside. They thought it was strange that a little five year old suddenly appeared from the woods. They didn't recognize him, and of course they wouldn't, he was about 1500 miles from his home. They asked him his name, he said I'm Charles and I need to get back to my Gramma and Grampa's house. He provided these kind strangers with his grandparents names along with their phone number including area code and address. They called 911 who sent the officer to deliver this young man back to the home of his grandparents. They were all amazed that this young man knew not only his grandparents name but also their address and phone number.  He was prepared for that day. He had been learning his numbers by using a little phone that was something like this one. One way he was mastering his numbers was by dialing his families phone numbers and one of his favorites to call was Gramma and Grampa!

That day you had a mighty adventure. Not only did you have a path of your very own created just for you by Grampa, you also learned a valuable lesson. You probably didn't have too much fear as you wandered through the woods. There were so many dangers, of which you were not even aware. Even though that creek in the woods wasn't that big where you crossed, there are parts of it that are deep, other areas with fast moving water where you could have been seriously hurt. The animals that roam in the woods to name a few are beavers, woodchucks, raccoons, wolves, snakes and bear. There are swampy areas, mucky-muddy areas, heavily wooded areas and various, holes and banks. Traps, barbed wire fences, and who knows what were here and there. We are so thankful that God protected you that day you lost your way. As we have taught you - your actions do not solely affect yourself. Your actions that day affected your grandparents with a fear and worry beyond words. It affected the neighbors, the kind strangers who discovered you, the police officer who returned you and your parents who learned about this after the fact.
God makes many references to paths. There are so many dangers in this world when we stray from His path. He wants us to stay on His path and will direct us if we acknowledge him in all of our ways and trust Him. He tells us to stay straight on the path and when you are not sure which way to go...go to His word. He tells us it is a lamp unto our feet and light unto our path. Sometimes life gets dark, unclear, it seems like there is no direction - He gives us a clear solution. He will turn the lamp on which will light it up- making it easier to see - his word will give you the direction you need on which way to go. Have you ever tried to do something in the dark - it is so difficult? Picture yourself for a minute in the dark trying to go somewhere - you can't see where you are going - you may bump into things, trip, fall, get lost or worse. Now picture yourself trying to do something in the dark - how successful are you going to be? More than likely you will fail without any light. What if you add a little light - you may finish your task, but will it be your best - probably not. OK - try turning the light on - not just a little glow but have the highest watt bulb that your lamp will handle - now you are seeing it all clearly! You will master every task before you and walk the path He has for you with sure footing. He tells us in His presence there is fulness of joy and pleasures for evermore.

Proverbs 3:5-7

⁵Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

⁶In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Proverbs 4:25-27

²⁵Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.

²⁶Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.

²⁷Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.

Psalm 119:105

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

Psalm 16:11

Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

There are plenty of warnings in His word about leaving the path. The evil and wickedness are definitely alive in this world. There are so many temptations and dangers that will try to pull you away. Stay strong in the Lord! He will direct you, guide you and keep your feet from slipping.

1 Peter 5:8

⁸Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

Prepare each day as a soldier would - always wearing your armor!

Ephesians 6:10-20

¹⁰ Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. ¹¹ Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. ¹² For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. ¹³Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. ¹⁴ Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, ¹⁵ and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.¹⁶ In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. ¹⁷Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. ¹⁸ And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people. ¹⁹ Pray also for me, that whenever I speak, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, ²⁰ for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should.
We love you very much Little Charles
and pray that you stay on His path through your life!
Happy Birthday to the best son in this world!

Grampa & Little Charles burning brush

Grampa and Becca - The path is just beyond the tractor!

Your Dinner Choice - Firehouse!!!

They even had that cool futuristic new cola fountain machine!

Dinner's not complete without Dad's Delicious Homemade Salsa

Per your request - No cake this year - Just Tons of Ice Cream - YUM, YUM!!!

Advent Calendar 2011

2011-12-13T14:54:00.000-08:00

Our Advent Calendar for 2011

I was a little late in ordering all of the supplies to create our advent calendar and just completed it a few days ago. That's ok - we will have fun with it for the last few weeks of December. I love old-fashioned, vintage, and antique styled things. I ordered the countdown calendar boxes from Joann and picked up the papers and stickers at other hobby shops around town. It was fun putting it together and a challenge coming up with tiny things to put in the boxes for their daily surprise. I'm hoping to have one for each of us in 2012.

Happy Birthday!

2011-12-12T20:50:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to my two favorite nephews! I can't believe you are eleven years old! It seems like just yesterday that you were tiny little tots running around. I will always treasure the few months that I got to spend my days with you. We love you both so very much and hope you have an awesome birthday!!!!

Not Just Cousins - but Brothers and Sisters in Christ!

Here are a few verses for you...
Have your Mom sing them to you - they are verses that she and Uncle Charles learned to music when they were young. I like to learn verses using music - don't you?

1 John 4:7-8
⁷Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
⁸He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.

Buckwheat and Milk

2011-12-11T11:59:00.000-08:00

One of Dad's favorite cereals is Buckwheats. He found them online and bought them not long ago. He said they are just as good as he remembered them being when he was a boy. Many years ago, he would go to church on Saturday morning for visitation. They would always have a pancake breakfast before they went out for the day. He remembered the cook saying, "Ok, if we don't take up more money for our breakfast supplies - I will be making buckwheat pancakes." Dad said - he wasn't sure why that was a bad thing - he actually like them very much. Yesterday - Dad and I went to Central Market and found some buckwheat flour while we were there. This morning, Dad made some buckwheat pancakes. They were very good and yes - they were just as he remembered them.

The purpose of our trip to Central Market was to look for new kinds of milk. He read that cow milk can aggravate acid reflux. We found some almond, soy and goats milk. I will let you know which kind seems to set the best with him. This is the first time we have ever tried goat's milk - it wasn't too bad. It has a slightly different after taste but otherwise tastes like regular milk. I am anxious to try that almond milk - it just sounds good.

We buried super chicken today - poor little thing - he was loved to death - literally! Becca found Major a new little duck - we are calling him Chuck the Duck! We will see if he has a longer lifespan than the previous poultry!

I am so fortunate to have had Mr. Fix-its in my life - I grew up with my Dad fixing what needed to be fixed, when I went to college - I had the priviledge of my brother's handiness, then I married my sweet husband who uses his skills to take care of me and fix my fixes. Now I am experiencing - my kind hearted son helping me out. I am so thankful for a husband who teaches our son to be handy and caring always ready to help and take care of his mama. I am so clueless when it comes to car repair. I had a dead battery the other day. Chuck let me borrow his car and charged my battery while I was at work. They both changed my battery today and got it all charged up for me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart to all my Mr. Fix-its over the years! I love all of you!

Never Gonna Steal My Joy

2011-12-10T19:36:00.000-08:00

Ruth Ann was such a character. I worked with her a few years back - she just had spice in her soul. She was one of those so quick witted and fun to be around, you never had to guess what was on her mind. Now don't get me wrong - she could push my buttons like no other - and she knew it! She always kept us on our toes. I just loved her so! The sayings she would come out with always cracked us up. One of the things she would often say was..."Their not gonna steal my joy!" Well - today was one of those days that anyone's joy could have just flown out the window. It was a day where everyone in the house was getting on everyone's last nerve. I think sickness, lack of sleep, and hunger played a part - but all is well now. It is so easy to say, "Their not gonna steal my joy!"...and another thing to actually live it. Jesus wants us to have joy in our hearts. In His presence is fulness of joy. I don't know about you but I like to be happy much more than anything else. If staying close to the Lord will fill up my happiness tank - then that is where I am going to try to go each day - to that pump that is gonna top off my tank with joy!

John 15:11 (Jesus speaking) "I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete."

Ps. 90:14 "Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days."

Psalm 16:11 ^"Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore."

I had know idea Mandisa had a song about this very thing! She is awesome - she was my pick on American Idol! Even though she didn't win Idol - I am so glad she is doing well in the christian music market. She has some amazing songs!

I have included the lyrics to her song below as well as the link to youtube - if you would like to listen to it. Hope you enjoy!

Mandisa
Steal My Joy lyrics

How will I make it to where I stand now?

You don't understand, I was up against the whole world

And all I could feel was it breaking me down

But out of a hopeless situation

There came a song of redemption

Life may push my heart to the limit

But I won't let go of the joy in my soul

'Cause everything can change in a minute

And the world may try

But they're never gonna steal my joy

No, they're never, no, they're never

So get up, stand up and rise above it

If every plan that you made go so wrong

You don't have to give into the struggle

You may be down but don't stay there for long

In every hopeless situation

There is a song of redemption

Life may push my heart to the limit

But I won't let go of the joy in my soul

'Cause everything can change in a minute

And the world may try

But they're never gonna steal my joy

No, they're never, no, they're never

The world may say you're never gonna make it

The world may say you're not strong enough to take it

But I don't care 'cause of the joy of the Lord is real

And they're never gonna steal my joy, never, no, never

Life may push my heart to the limit

But I won't let go of the joy in my soul

'Cause everything can change in a minute

And the world may try

But they're never gonna steal my joy

Life may push my heart to the limit

But I won't let go of the joy in my soul

'Cause everything can change in a minute

And the world may try

But they're never gonna steal my joy

No, they're never, no, they're never

Never gonna steal my joy

No, they're never, no, no, they're never

Never gonna steal my joy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3L4mA1991ug

Don't let anyone or anything steal your joy! It should be in Him alone!

Not Easily Broken

2011-12-09T20:08:00.000-08:00

I love object lessons -learning a principle using common objects.

Grampa was my Youth Pastor when I was in high school. One way he like to present messages was by using object lessons. I am sure this is where I came to love this style of teaching. One specific lesson that I remember was the lesson where he used a piece a thread and a piece of cloth. He took one of Gramma's kitchen towels and cut it up into small pieces and also had some thread from the towel. He gave each of us a piece of thread and a piece of cloth. He then had us try to break the thread - it broke easily! Then he had us try to rip apart the piece of cloth. It would not easily break, unravel or come apart. The principle of the lesson was about relationships. God created us in a way that relationships are essential not only with other people - but also with Him. It essential to have God at the center of any relationship.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 says:
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone. Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."

Relationships are so important, but always remember the most important strand is our relationship with Jesus. He definitely is the strongest strand in our life!

What a Great Comfort!

2011-12-08T19:41:00.000-08:00

As you know I have had this stinkin cold all week - and I've been whinin and belly achin about it too! Well - hopefully not too much. I started out with a sore throat that lasted for a few days, which then turned to a stuffy nose, now its stuffy and runny with a bit of chest congestion. The cough is on... which gets the throat hurting when it gets out of control. My eyes are itchy and watery which gets the nose running which has gotten red and sore. The other day I bought some tissues that were cool touch or something like that. I did like them, but they didn't have lotion which led to the sore red rudolph nose. As my day progressed it glowed brighter and brighter so I figured I'd head to Wally World to pick up the tissues with lotion. I'm so glad I did - there was a great find on the shelf! Not only did I find tissues with lotion - I found them with lotion and vicks!

Wow - why didn't they think of that years ago. Well - all that to say - what a comfort it was to my sore little nose. It was so soothing and breathing them in opened up my sinuses - my nose is on its way to healing up.

This was all just about my little nose - but I'm sure you know exactly what I was talking about. We all have had little ills that need comforting. It might be a cold, an ache or pain...something physical. It might be hurt feelings, something that made you hurt inside....something emotional. It might be doubt, distance....something spiritual. So many different things in your life may need comfort or healing - well the Lord can provide it and He will. He promises He will comfort us and He is faithful - not waivering in His love for us. I know this is a long chapter - but it is good! I have posted the Easy to Read Version and that it is! It tells about how so many in the Bible just kept screwing up, failing, forgetting and being down right selfish. But - it also reminds us that no matter how much we fail....Praise the Lord - His faithful love will last forever! He is good and He keeps His promises. Thank you Lord for being my best source of comfort!

Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)

Psalm 106

¹ Praise the LORD!
Give thanks to the LORD because he is good!
   His faithful love will last forever!
² No one can describe how great the LORD really is.
   No one can praise him enough.
³ Those who obey his commands are happy.
   They do good things all the time.
⁴ LORD, remember me when you show kindness to your people.
   Remember to save me too!
⁵ Let me share in the good things
   that you do for your chosen people.
Let me rejoice with your nation.
   Let me join with your people in praise.
⁶ We sinned just as our ancestors did.
   We were wrong; we did bad things!
⁷ Lord, our ancestors learned nothing
   from the miracles you did in Egypt.
They forgot your kindness at the Red Sea
   and rebelled against you.
⁸ But the Lord saved our ancestors for the honor of his name.
   He saved them to show his great power.
⁹ He gave the command, and the Red Sea became dry.
   He led them through the deep sea on land as dry as the desert.
¹⁰ He saved our ancestors
   and rescued them from their enemies.
¹¹ He covered their enemies with the sea.
   Not one of them escaped!
¹² Then our ancestors believed what he had said.
   They sang praises to him.
¹³ But they quickly forgot about what he did.
   They did not listen to his advice.
¹⁴ They became hungry in the desert,
   and they tested him in the wilderness.
¹⁵ He gave them what they asked for,
   but he also gave them a terrible disease.
¹⁶ The people became jealous of Moses.
   They became jealous of Aaron, the LORD’S holy priest.
¹⁷ The ground opened up and swallowed Dathan.
   Then the ground closed up and covered Abiram’s group.
¹⁸ Then a fire burned that mob of people.
   It burned those wicked people.
¹⁹ The people made a golden calf at Mount Horeb.
   They worshiped a statue!
²⁰ They traded their glorious God
   for a statue of a grass-eating bull!
²¹ They forgot all about God, the one who saved them,
   the one who did the miracles in Egypt.
²² He did amazing things there in Ham’s country ^[a]!
   He did awesome things at the Red Sea!
²³ God wanted to destroy those people,
   but Moses, the leader he chose, stood in the way.
God was very angry, but Moses begged him to stop,
   so God did not destroy the people. ^[b]
²⁴ But then they refused to go into the wonderful land of Canaan.
   They did not believe that God would help them defeat the people there.
²⁵ Our ancestors complained in their tents
   and refused to obey the LORD.
²⁶ So he swore that they would die
   in the desert.
²⁷ He promised to scatter them among the nations
   and to let other people defeat their descendants.
²⁸ At Baal Peor they joined in worshiping Baal
   and ate sacrifices to honor the dead. ^[c]
²⁹ The LORD became angry with his people,
   so he made them sick.
³⁰ But Phinehas prayed ^[d] to God,
   and God stopped the sickness.
³¹ He considered what Phinehas did a good work,
   and it will be remembered forever and ever.
³² At Meribah the people made the LORD angry
   and created trouble for Moses.
³³ They upset Moses,
   and he spoke without stopping to think.
³⁴ The LORD told the people to destroy the other nations living in Canaan.
   But the Israelites did not obey him.
³⁵ They mixed with the other people
   and did what those people were doing.
³⁶ They began worshiping the false gods those people worshiped.
   And their idols became a trap.
³⁷ They even offered their own children
   as sacrifices to demons.
³⁸ They killed their innocent sons and daughters
   and offered them to the false gods of Canaan.
   So the land was polluted with the sin of murder.
³⁹ They were unfaithful to him,
   and they became dirty with the sins of other nations.
⁴⁰ So the LORD became angry with his people.
   He rejected those who belonged to him.
⁴¹ He gave his people to other nations
   and let their enemies rule over them.
⁴² Their enemies controlled them
   and made life hard for them.
⁴³ He saved his people many times,
   but they turned against him and did what they wanted to do.
   His people did many bad things.
⁴⁴ But whenever they were in trouble,
   he listened to their prayers.
⁴⁵ He always remembered his agreement,
   and because of his faithful love, he comforted them.
⁴⁶ Other nations took them as prisoners,
   but the Lord caused them to be kind to his people.
⁴⁷ LORD our God, save us!
   Bring us back together from those nations.
Then we will give thanks to your holy name
   and joyfully praise you.
⁴⁸ Praise the LORD, the God of Israel!
   He always was and will always be worthy of praise.
Let all the people say, “Amen!”

Christmas Parties

2011-12-07T20:09:00.000-08:00

Becca had her Christmas party at youth group - and Praise the Lord she met her first requirement for the mission trip. She is trying to come up with ideas to raise her remaining balance. Chuck and his college class talked about Tebow and his testimony. They talked about the stands which he has taken and how he is living - what a great example for all christians. My group also had a sweet Christmas celebration getting to know our leader and her sweet mom and sister - talking and sharing about Christmas. It is always a sweet time of fellowship and fun.

Praying for Wisdom

2011-12-06T19:34:00.000-08:00

Dad has taught you since you were young...Pray for wisdom - the Lord will graciously give it to you. He told you to remember Solomon and how the Lord let him choose what he would like and he picked wisdom. He received more than wisdom - he received all that was offered to him. Wisdom is a treasure that shouldn't be taken for granted. You both are very gifted and talented - Pray God will make clear His plans for you - Dad and I are praying for you both to know exactly which steps to take! Dig into the word - it is full of truths, wisdom and treasures. We love our weekly trivia, learning facts about football, art, cooking and other odds and ends. It is great to learn about all of these things and increase our learning and expertise in various areas of our lives. But always remember to stay in His Word daily. Don't just quickly read it to read it - but dig into it - find the truths and wisdom that God wants you to know. It is His Living Word - Listen to Him Speak.

Proverbs 2:6
For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.
Proverbs 8:11
For wisdom is better than rubies; and all the things that may be desired are not to be compared to it.
Proverbs 16:16
How much better is it to get wisdom than gold! and to get understanding rather to be chosen than silver!

Here are the correct answers to the trivia...How did you do?

Topic: Is It In There?

1. Is the statement "God helps those who help themselves" in the Bible? Scripture Reference: no
2. Is the saying "cast your bread upon the waters" found in Scripture? Scripture Reference: Ecclesiastes 11:1 Cast thy bread upon the waters: for thou shalt find it after many days.
yes
- 3. Is the truism "you reap what you sow" based on Scripture? Scripture Reference: 2 Corinthians 9:6 But this I say, He which soweth sparingly shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully.
yes
- 4. Is the adage "money is the root of all evil" from the Bible? Scripture Reference: 1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
no
- 5. Is the maxim "cleanliness is next to godliness" in the Bible? Scripture Reference:
no
- 6. Is the maxim "honesty is the best policy" based on Scripture? Scripture Reference: Leviticus 19:36 Just balances, just weights, a just ephah, and a just hin, shall ye have: I am the LORD your God, which brought you out of the land of Egypt.
yes
- 7. Is the aphorism "a fool and his money are soon parted" found in Scripture? Scripture Reference:
no
- 8. Is the proverb "It is more blessed to give than to receive" found in the Bible? Scripture Reference: Acts 20:35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.
yes
- 9. Is the maxim "do unto others as you'd have done to you" based on Scripture? Scripture Reference: Matthew 7:12 Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
yes
- 10. Is the adage "to err is human, to forgive divine" found in the Bible? Scripture Reference:
no

Texas Style Meal and Trivia

2011-12-05T20:32:00.000-08:00

I'm a little under the weather today. This cold and rainy weather combined with going shopping with out dressing properly, may have had some part in the way I'm feeling. Not to mention, others passing around colds, strep throat and other fall bugs! Trying to fight it off with vitamin c, hot lemon and honey tea, chicken noodle soup and a few medications too.
Charles made the perfect meal to warm my throat. It's one of our favorite dinner choices and one that I had not heard of before moving to the South.
Frito Pie!
Take a handful of fritos and place in your bowl.
Cover with chili (I prefer Charles' homemade)
Top with Cheese
and Dig in!
Tonight Charles made smoked brisket chili and it was delicious.
The boys like to add onion and ketchup to the top of theirs.

Friends in the North - you need to try this - it is really good - and always a hit with the kids.

By the way - Chuck did AWESOME on his speech - he got a 95 - Y.E.A.H CHUCK!!!!!

I always loved a good game of trivia - are you up for it?

The Weekly Bible ChallengeProvided by Back to the Bible
Topic: Is It In There? - yes or no?

Things To Do on a Cold and Rainy Day

2011-12-04T19:22:00.000-08:00

I made my To Do Board - but the girls haven't made theirs yet! It's another neat idea from pinterest.

A little bit of scrapbooking paper and accessories with yet another dollar store frame is all you need.

Print your check boxes and lines.

Add a dry erase marker and Voila - you have just made yourself a reusable checklist.

Misti had to go home early due to an overload of studies.

Becca worked on making more magnets for her other board.

Their "to do" boards will be posted soon!

Football and a snack tray of crackers, cheese, pepperoni and salami was on the schedule of our afternoon. Yeah - Tebow - I pray he keeps it up not only with his good playing - but more importantly with his outstanding testimony! Now as for that stupid end to the Cowboys game - we were not happy campers! I bet even that fly on the wall will be in trouble at the after game meeting - Yikes!

Hope they do better next time.

The rain was an answer to prayer this weekend as well as the cooler weather.

Chuck finished his persuasive speech for school and went through a few practice runs - I know he will do great this week! Finals are coming up and we are praying for A's...we are so proud of his efforts! Becca is also doing great in school - she is so motivated and focused - and we are, of course, also so proud of her too!

All the parts are in for the window repair - but the weather didn't allow for the labor - maybe next weekend! The weekends always go way to fast - so thankful I'm part of a family that loves to spend time together in our home filled with love and laughter. I have a few friends that just dread heading home due to the turmoil and drama. I pray that Chuck and Becca will have happy, loving Christ centered homes when they are grown and on their own.

Shop till ya Drop, then Craft, Craft, Craft

2011-12-03T20:08:00.000-08:00

Thank the Lord for the Rain - He knows we need it!

Today - Becca, Misti and I had a day of shopping. Most of the afternoon was spent going from store to store. We were shopping for a few new projects we found on pinterest. The first one completed today was a magnetic board. They will either be used as earring holders or just to hold our random notes. The uses for these boards are endless. We talked about using them for our sewing notions, scrapbooking supplies, beads, jewelry, or it could be used to hold recipes while cooking. We are not only making our little rock magnets - but also some magnetic containers.

Here are our supplies - tin snips, tacky glue, paint, magnets, rocks, ribbon, fabric and little containers.

A few stickers, feathers, and embellisments were used too. We also used a frame and matte. We purchased as much as possible from the dollar store - the one where things really are a dollar.

Cookie Sheet - $1

Stones - $1 per bag

Containers - $1 per 10

11 x 14 Frame - $1

The other items were purchased at a local craft store.

Paint - $.50 each

Magnets - $6.99 for 50 magnets (they had smaller quantities for less)

Fabric - 1/4 yard- 1/2 yard - prices vary - we paid $2.99 per yard

Ribbon - $1.50 per roll

Matte - $3.99

If you need to buy the tacky glue and tinsnips

That size tacky glue - which is way more than you need for this project was $5.99.
The tinsnips from a local hardware store was $9.99.

Snip the edge of of the cookie sheet

(be very careful - it will have very sharp edges
- totally suggest this be done by an adult)

Use tacky glue and a foam brush to spread the glue to secure the fabric around the cookie sheet
Remove the glass from the frame

Place the matte in the frame
Now the fabric covered metal sheet

Followed by the back of the frame

Decorate the frame and matte to your hearts content.

This is Becca's Board!

This is Misti's Board

I will add my board tomorrow!

The girls painted the bottom of their stones and also painted the lids of their containers to personalize and perk them up a little before adding the magnets.

I'm going to try to make a few magnetic stones with fabric tomorrow.

The boys went shopping too - but they went to a more manly store - Best Buy! They always enjoy that store. I was even presented with a sweet surprise from my wonderful husband, a few things that he found on their trip. I got my car charger and a new phone case, a pink Otterbox! YEAH, ME!

Here is my board with the fabric stone magnets...

That's enough!

2011-12-02T20:49:00.000-08:00

(Phil 4:5 KJV) Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.

self-control
tempations
strongholds

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and more

coming soon!

what's your draw?!?!

Cookie Swap!

2011-12-01T20:26:00.000-08:00

This seems to be one of the most tiring weeks of the year at work. The phones ring nonstop with our clients finalizing their programs and our staff busily ensuring the success of our part for each of the events. Every night, I have wanted to just come home and drop. Tonight, though, was the big event - The Great Cookie Exchange!

I remember as a little girl the times that Gramma would go to a cookie exchange. Away she would go with her big container of cookies - usually taking her yummy sugar cookies which had been decorated so pretty for the holidays. She said when she would be home later, she would be returning with a new batch of cookies. It was so fun to open her container and see so many different kinds of cookies. All kinds of shapes, sizes and flavors and all were delicious. For years I've talked to my sisters-in-law and friends, wondering if they wanted to have one...either they didn't want to or time would fly by and we just wouldn't get around to having one. This year we finally did it and it was so worth the wait. Tracey was the hostess with her home decorated so beautifully, nice and festive for Christmas. It was a small group of sweet friends getting together with their home baked creations to share. I hope it becomes an annual event!

Oh No, Did I turn it off?

2011-11-30T20:11:00.000-08:00

Wednesday night is always special. I get to start the evening with my two favorite teenagers. Tonight the dinner selection was Burger King. The decision sometimes takes us half of our drive to finalize. I mentioned that I vanted Vienerschnitzel. Vhy? - you ask? - Vell, I thought it vould be vonderful! Almost everytime - one of us (usually me) just has to say they vant Vienerschnitzel for dinner. One little treat we have at Burger King is the Coffee News which contains a little game of trivia. The challenge is always fun.
Church was good - Chuck had a guest speaker this evening - - Brother Gary spoke about how God is always with us even when we feel alone. Becca heard Brother D speak on idols. Our Bible study was Christmas Crafts tonight - Christa read the Christmas Story - then Shera showed us how to make several cute Christmas crafts. Glue guns, fabric, ornaments, coffee filters, moss and ribbon - so many clever ideas.
After her presentation on how to create each item - she had the materials there for us to make our own. Snip, snip went the fabric strips as the room filled with the scents of hot glue guns heating up. Tracey suddenly had a concerned look come across her face. " What is it?, I asked. "I think I left my hot glue gun plugged in at the house!" she said. Of course, worry creeps in along with that sinking feeling that reaches clear down to your toes. I'm sure you have had a similar feeling, I know that I have had that sick doubtful feeling.
So many things come to mind which you might have experienced too-
     Did I lock the door?
     Did I turn the burner off?
     Did they make it ok - I haven't heard from them?
on and on - I'm sure you can think of many more thoughts that bring up doubt and worry.

Read Psalm 91 if you have doubts, worry, or fear - it will uplift your Spirit! I was going to post only verses 1-2 but had to post it all! Below is the Easy to Read Version of the chapter.

Psalm 91
¹ You can go to God Most High to hide.
   You can go to God All-Powerful for protection.
² I say to the LORD, “You are my place of safety, my fortress.
   My God, I trust in you.”
³ God will save you from hidden dangers
   and from deadly diseases.
⁴ You can go to him for protection.
   He will cover you like a bird spreading its wings over its babies.
   You can trust him to surround and protect you like a shield.
⁵ You will have nothing to fear at night
   and no need to be afraid of enemy arrows during the day.
⁶ You will have no fear of diseases that come in the dark
   or terrible suffering that comes at noon.
⁷ A thousand people may fall dead at your side
   or ten thousand right beside you,
   but nothing bad will happen to you!
⁸ All you will have to do is watch,
   and you will see that the wicked are punished.
⁹ You trust in the LORD for protection.
   You have made God Most High your place of safety.
¹⁰ So nothing bad will happen to you.
   No diseases will come near your home.
¹¹ He will command his angels to protect you wherever you go.
¹² Their hands will catch you
   so that you will not hit your foot on a rock.
¹³ You will have power to trample on lions
   and poisonous snakes.
¹⁴ The Lord says, “If someone trusts me, I will save them.
   I will protect my followers who call to me for help.
¹⁵ When my followers call to me, I will answer them.
   I will be with them when they are in trouble.
   I will rescue them and honor them.
¹⁶ I will give my followers a long life
   and show them my power to save.”

Praise the Lord - He protected Tracey's home. The glue gun was left plugged in but He protected and saved them from hidden dangers.

Another verse - that I'm sure you know is this - - - -

1 Peter 5:7 (KJV)

⁷Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

The Lord love us and will protect us. He cares for us so much and will take all of our worries and cares and help us through them all.

Thank you Lord for protecting our sweet friends' home!

Thumbprint Cookies

2011-11-29T20:00:00.000-08:00

Tonight Becca made another cookie to take to the cookie exchange - thumbprint cookies!
Another busy day!

Christmas Cookie #2

2011-11-28T20:12:00.000-08:00

It was a busy day at work today.
Chuck played charades in speech class this morning.
Becca made a few concoctions today - a face mask, hair oil and new flip flops. Some of the ingredients in her face mask were honey, cinnamon and nutmeg; her hair oil was from coconut oil; and her flip flops were converted with a pretty ribbon.
Charles had a good Monday and made one of our favorite meals - rice (like a risotto - with turkey). I could eat this every night.
We baked a batch of cookies for the cookie swap, which is coming up later this week. Almond cups are the type we selected and they are delicious. I don't think I have ever made these, but remember Gramma making them a time or two. I remember her loving these cookies and now I remember why!
Christmas Cookie # 2 - Almond Cups

Let's Decorate!

2011-11-27T15:31:00.001-08:00

Today was a fun day packed full of busy. Becca, Misti and I headed out to Sunday School on this chilly day. Misti and I played hookie though - finishing up the mole in the car while Becca went to class. I must make a correction - it is really Miss Mole not Mr. Mole. Here is what she looked like when she left our house this morning.

Leftovers are always a treat - especially after Thanksgiving. While making lunch - Charles and Chuck got into a towel snapping fight. Becca and I slowly retreated to opposite corners of the kitchen, steering clear of the competition moving through the room. As far as the winner goes, I believe it was a draw. We could maybe determine it by the one with the least number of welps on their legs. I'm glad they had fun, but it is definitely a sport, I would rather be the spectator. We enjoyed our lunch over the traditional Sunday football games. Becca and I spent the later part of the afternoon, shopping all over town. The greatest purchase being our new Christmas tree. It was high time we replaced our little Charlie Brown tree. As soon as we got home, we put it up and got it decorated.

God Has His Angels Watching Over Us!

http://youtu.be/MUKcUxnvHEw

Amy Grant - Angels Watching Over Us

Our tree is not one of those that is perfectly coordinated by color or style. On the other hand, it is a picture of us! One of our traditions is that each of us picks a new ornament each year. When Chuck and Becca were young - the ornaments were often handmade at times with their picture or something personalizing them. Every ornament on the tree has a special meaning to each or all of us. Pulling the boxes out and looking through the carefully wrapped ornaments each year is a sweet time of reminiscing. It brings to mind the interests we had at the time we found that perfect ornament for that year, or the place where we bought it, or the person that gave it to us. Below are a few of the ornaments that Becca chose to hang on the tree this year.

Oh - I received a text from Misti this evening!

She completed Miss Mole - adding a little bit of glamour for the little lady!

I think she looks mahhhhvelllouuuss daahhlling!

Day of Projects

2011-11-26T21:12:00.000-08:00

Today was a day filled with projects.
Delicious breakfast casserole made by Dad! Yum - he used the sour cream potatoes from Thanksgiving and added lots of other goodies.
Sewed a skirt for my purse - almost finished - it is made with this fabric

The boys checked the oil in the vehicles and bought the parts to fix Dad's window.

Becca spent the night at Misti's last night (they had a fire and made smores last night).

Misti is spending the night here tonight - she wanted a little guidance on her science project. She needs to make a mole. Here it is in the beginning stages - she will finish him up tomorrow.

Becca worked on her latest painting while Misti and I were working on Mr. Mole! She will be done with it soon - then I will post a completed picture - it is turning out beautifully!

This is the time of year our baking hats come out! We love cookies at Christmas time. Our first batch for the season was made tonight. Christmas Cookie # 1 prepared in 2011 was the Peanut Butter Cup Cookie!

Then of course there was the video game competition that ended the night with some silly, wonderful teenagers.

Living on a Rooftop

2011-11-25T20:21:00.000-08:00

Better to live on a corner of the roof

than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

Proverbs 21:9

Something we have taught Chuck and Becca for a long time was the truth in this verse. We have discussed it with Chuck when talking about girls that he might be interested in dating and with Becca when talking about the type of lady she should grow up to be or not to be.

Can you imagine living on your roof?

There is no protection from the weather. It may be hot with no breeze - the sun beating down on you with no form of shade. The rooftop would also grow hot almost untouchable. The wind may pick up - possibly blowing you off the roof. It could be stormy with the rain steadily pouring down on you. There is no way to stay dry and warm. What if a hailstorm blew in pelting your body with those chunks of sleet? Oh my - just think of some of these softball sized hail stones- they would kill you! Some of us live in snowy areas- brrr! Snow, sleet and ice freezing you to your bones. The weather conditions would be unbearable at times, giving a rare pleasant break. But you know what - all of that is better than sharing a house with a brawling woman!

You could have nothing of value. Think about it - where would you keep it - in the eaves? If a storm blew in the rain would wash it right down the gutter. Maybe you could keep something under the shingles, but the wind may come along and blow it away. There is not really a place to have anything on the roof and keep it protected and safe. It would just be you - up there alone - but remember - that is still better than down in that beautiful house with a quarrelsome woman.

There would be no privacy. There are no walls, no windows, no curtains or blinds. There you are - up on the roof - wide open for the whole world to see. They would see you sitting, standing, laying, if you are awake, or asleep - whatever you do - all will see. But again - it is still better, better than being in a huge

house with a women inclined to petty fighting and is easily irritated.

Did you know that God commanded something of the husband and of the wife?

However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:33

He commanded the husband to love his wife. He commanded the wife to respect her husband. We have been going through an excellent study on marriage in Sunday School by Emerson Eggerichs called Love and Respect which is based on this verse. There is a crazy cycle a marriage can go through if it is not followed. The husband needs respect and the wife needs love, if these aren't given to each other there are strife and problems. If either will do as they are commanded the other will follow suit. I pray that I never make Charles feel like he will be happier to move up on the roof due to my nagging. I want to be his crown. I pray that Chuck finds a crown, and that Becca will be a crown for her husband in God's time.

A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones. Proverbs 12:4

The Wishbone

2011-11-24T19:50:00.000-08:00

One of our traditions at Thanksgiving has always been to break a wishbone.

The one with the biggest half gets to make a wish.

I was thinking about this tradition that has been in both of our families for so many years. It is done in light hearted fun, with very little stock in that wish coming true. Why? - because we both come from families that put our "stock" or our faith in Christ. I read a little bit about the history of breaking the wishbone. It goes back to ancient times. There were people that believed they would have good fortune by getting the bigger half, while others felt that the breastbone was sacred and that they would have good luck, if permitted to stroke the bone. There are some strange beliefs and traditions that man has come up with over the years. The Bible references many traditions. The main thing I saw regarding traditions was this warning - Don't lay aside Gods' commandments to follow the traditions of man.

I'm so thankful we don't have to worry about getting the bigger half of a broken bone to receive the desires of our heart. I'm glad we don't need to rub a turkey's breastbone to find good fortune. Webster's dictionary defines a wish as a desire. It is clear in Psalm 37:3-5 how our wishes can come true.

Psalm 37: 3-5

³Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.
⁴Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
⁵Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.

Trust in the Lord...Do Good...Delight yourself in the Lord...Commit your ways unto Him...Trust in Him

Psalm 145 (KJV)

¹I will extol thee, my God, O king; and I will bless thy name for ever and ever.
²Every day will I bless thee; and I will praise thy name for ever and ever.
³Great is the LORD, and greatly to be praised; and his greatness is unsearchable.
⁴One generation shall praise thy works to another, and shall declare thy mighty acts.
⁵I will speak of the glorious honour of thy majesty, and of thy wondrous works.
⁶And men shall speak of the might of thy terrible acts: and I will declare thy greatness.
⁷They shall abundantly utter the memory of thy great goodness, and shall sing of thy righteousness.
⁸The LORD is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.
⁹The LORD is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.
¹⁰All thy works shall praise thee, O LORD; and thy saints shall bless thee.
¹¹They shall speak of the glory of thy kingdom, and talk of thy power;
¹²To make known to the sons of men his mighty acts, and the glorious majesty of his kingdom.
¹³Thy kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and thy dominion endureth throughout all generations.
¹⁴The LORD upholdeth all that fall, and raiseth up all those that be bowed down.
¹⁵The eyes of all wait upon thee; and thou givest them their meat in due season.
¹⁶Thou openest thine hand, and satisfiest the desire of every living thing.
¹⁷The LORD is righteous in all his ways, and holy in all his works.
¹⁸The LORD is nigh unto all them that call upon him, to all that call upon him in truth.
¹⁹He will fulfil the desire of them that fear him: he also will hear their cry, and will save them.
²⁰The LORD preserveth all them that love him: but all the wicked will he destroy.
²¹My mouth shall speak the praise of the LORD: and let all flesh bless his holy name for ever and ever

Wow - what an amazing scripture! The Lord will hold us up when we are falling and raise us up when we bow down. He will feed us. He will open His hands and satisfy the desire of every living thing. That would include you, me and everyone and everything around us. He is righteous in all His ways - He is going to do right - always. He is holy (pure in heart, temper or disposition; free from sin and sinful affections - *from Websters) in His works - always. He is near to us when we call on Him in truth. Fear him and He will fulfill the desires of our heart. He will hear our cries and save us - always. He will keep us from injury or destruction and defend us from evil - always. We all have so much to be thankful for everyday. We were talking today at lunch, and Aunt Collette mentioned a friend of hers that had an ungrateful attitude recently. They were taking a challenge to say something they were thankful for each day through November. Her friend said, "I got nothing! - not one thing to be thankful for!" She said this or something like it several days. Ma-Maw, Aunt Collette and I were talking about so very many things we can give thanks for every moment right down to the air we breathe. Always remember to have a thankful heart and remember not to put your hope or trust in anything else, but only in the Lord. He is the one that gives us reason to have thanks! Happy Thanksgiving - I love you all!

By the Way - Becca's First Pumpkin Pie was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!!! Awesome Job Beckidy Boo!

Busy, Good Day!

2011-11-23T21:14:00.000-08:00

It was a busy, good day! Work was nice today - it was my other sweet friend's birthday today. Happy 70th Birthday Peggy! We celebrated Peg along with having a thanksgiving lunch- potluck style. Everything was delicious and the fellowship was sweet. After work, I headed home to my wonderful family. We worked together to prepare for our Thanksgiving feast tomorrow. Becca had already made the pumpkin pies - they look amazing! It was her first time to make them completely on her own, I can't wait until tomorrow to taste a piece. This evening she and I made a cherry pie (her's and her Granddad's favorite). We also made a mincemeat pie which is Charles' favorite. If you are wondering - Chuck's favorite is pumpkin pie. My favorite is not really a Thanksgiving pie - coconut cream is the best in my opinion. Charles made some scrumptious turkey gravy - yum. The country potatoes are ready to be topped off tomorrow and heated to perfection - or so Chuck says. He absolutely loves that dish. We are all looking forward to meeting up with family and spending time together tomorrow. We are thankful for the family that is close by and wishing all of the family was near. Praying that all family and friends, near and far are having a blessed Thanksgiving holiday!

Blessings

2011-11-22T20:21:00.000-08:00

Don't you just love blessings?

It is so great to receive them, but even better to give them.

Have you ever looked up the definition of the word bless?

I like using the Webster's 1828 dictionary which defines it like this:

Bless
1. To pronounce a wish of happiness to one; to express a wish or desire of happiness.

And Isaac called Jacob and blessed him. Gen.28.2.
To make happy; to make successful; to prosper in temporal concerns; as, we are blest with peace and plenty. The Lord thy God shall bless thee in all thou doest. Deut. 15.3.
To make happy in a future life.

Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord. Rev.14.
4. To set apart or consecrate to holy purposes; to make and pronounce holy.

And God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it. Gen.25.
To consecrate by prayer; to invoke a blessing upon.

And Jesus took the five loaves and the two fishes, and looking up to heaven he blessed them. Luke 9.6.

To praise; to glorify, for benefits received.

Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me. Ps.103.7.
To praise; to magnify; to extol, for excellencies. Ps.104.
8. To esteem or account happy; with the reciprocal pronoun.
The nations shall bless themselves in him. Jer.4.
9. To pronounce a solemn prophetical benediction upon. Gen.27. Deut. 33.

Blessing someone is easy - we only need to wish them happiness, make them happy, or help them to be successful and prosper in temporal concerns. There are so many ways to bless others. Parents bless their children daily by praying blessings for them, making them happy by spending time with them and teaching them new things. Simple things bless a child - if making them successful is a blessing - most parents do this naturally. We teach them how to walk, talk, love, share, learn and more - all of these are blessings. We make them happy by joking around with them, or by showing them joy for the things they accomplish. Blessing our children is so very easy. Just think, if we can bless our children so naturally and easily - How much more does the Lord bless us?

⁷Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
⁸For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
⁹Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
¹⁰Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
¹¹If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
¹²Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets

The Lord is so good to us - He blesses us continuously. He wants us to be happy and successful.

How can we bless Him? Praise Him, Glorify Him for the benefits we receive. Thank Him and have a sweet relationship with Him. One of my favorite ways to Praise Him is to sing. Now believe me, I do not have one of those sweet angelic voices that sing you to sleep, it's quite the contrary. You can confirm this with Chuck, Becca or Misti - I would always belt out the praise songs on our morning commutes. Thankfully the Lord loves to hear me sing praises to Him. He loves it more than the parent who adores that sweet child singing so lovingly and so terribly off key.

Let's find a way to bless someone this week. This is going to be our challenge for the week. Make someone happy, help them succeed or temporarily prosper. The second challenge for the week - be sure you praise and glorify God. - I will try to share some of the blessings our family experiences and would love to hear about how you blessed someone this week too!

Clean Teeth

2011-11-21T05:45:00.000-08:00

Is this what it feels like when you go to the dentist?

We have all recently visited the dentist and gotten our teeth cleaning up to date. We have the sweetest hygienist that is so thorough in picking all that plaque off, and thank the Lord she is gentle too. Chuck and I were talking about how it felt, its like she has a pick axe or jack hammer peeling all that built up plaque off. It's not the most comfortable thing in the world, but Charles is correct, even though it might hurt just a little bit - it always feels good to have our teeth sparkly clean.

I was curious to see whether there was anything in the Bible about teeth, and guess what. Teeth are mentioned several times. It seems like the majority of verses are to do with the gnashing of teeth, but there is also a reference regarding clean teeth in Amos.

Amos 4:6 And I also have given you cleanness of teeth in all your cities, and want of bread in all your places: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD.

Every reference and study help that I read, explained that this cleanness of teeth did not come from a trip to the dentist. Nor did it come from daily brushing, flossing and rinsing; instead it referred to the famine that was taking place. There would be no trouble in cleaning their teeth, because they had nothing to eat. The Lord was using this judgement to bring His people back to Him, but the judgement had no influence on these people. They would not pull away from their sin or idol worship.

I would much rather go through a few minutes of pain with the dentist, than a famine with the Lord. He loves us so much and wants us to have a close relationship with Him. Return to Him, if you have stepped away - He will always accept you with open arms!

My favorite reference for this verse was from Moody Bible Institute...

Amos 4:4-13

"You have not returned to Me," says the Lord. —Amos 4:6
The Old Testament book of Amos has given us some memorable phrases: "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" (3:3). "Prepare to meet your God" (4:12). "Let justice run down like water" (5:24).

But the most-repeated phrase in Amos occurs five times in chapter 4. Time after time the Lord speaks of all He has done to discipline His wayward, self-indulgent people and draw them back to Himself. In every case the response is the same: "'You have not returned to Me,' says the Lord" (Amos 4:6,8-11).

As we read and marvel at their hardness of heart, we must also ask if the same could be true of us. If we have sensed that the Lord has been trying to get our attention, how have we responded to Him?

The prophecy of Amos contains warnings of judgment, captivity, and destruction. Yet there are calls for repentance and promises of restoration: "Seek good and not evil, that you may live; so the Lord God of hosts will be with you" (5:14).

The book of Amos has many memorable phrases, but we should never forget God's invitation to all who have wandered away from Him: Return to Me.

If you haven't returned, do it now. —David C. McCasland

I've strayed, O Lord, and turned aside,
I've disobeyed Your voice;
But now with contrite heart I turn
And make Your will my choice. —D. De Haan

True repentance turns from the wrong and returns to the right.

Be Happy!

2011-11-20T18:46:00.000-08:00

We had a really nice weekend spending time doing the things we love.

Charles smoked some meat to share with others over this holiday week.

Chuck being silly when I captured him playing his computer game.

Becca trying to figure out what she was going to add to that new level she was creating on her game.

Major chawing down on that great big stick! Is chawing really a word? haha - and not really sure why he likes to chew on wood, but he does.

God says in Proverbs 17:22, ^"A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones." Being happy and being merry is good for your soul, for your spirit and also for your body. This verse shows a broken spirit and dry bones result from not having a merry heart. Are you taking time to do the things you love, things that make you happy.

Proverbs 15:13 A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken. When our hearts are merry, we will be cheerful and fun to be around. I can think of several friends over the years that are truly fun and joyful to be around. They smile and are full of life. The second half of the verse talks about sorrow of the heart breaking the spirit. I can also bring to mind others who have been downtrodden over the years. In the beginning it isn't as difficult to be around them, because they need our help, encouragement will sometimes bring them out of their rut. But there are those people, that don't seem to want to let go of the mully grubbies. They are down and want to stay that way. Their spirit is broken and at times seem to want to suck the joy out of you too. Who are you drawn to? Who are you like?

I read a book recently that had an excellent illustration. They shared about this woman - an U.G.L.Y woman! Well, the story went a little bit like this. One day a couple went to a store and the lady working at the counter had a group of guys around her, they were joking and laughing and having a grand old time. The wife who was observing her was thinking how homely this lady was, well not really homely - she thought she was ugly - not just ugly, but hillbilly ugly. They finished shopping and were heading out of the store, when the wife made a comment to her husband about all the crowd, especially the men drawn to this lady. Her husband made a comment back, something like - who? oh, that cute, little lady behind the counter? The wife's jaw dropped - she thought to herself, REALLY?, but didn't comment. The wife thought about his comment, and about the lady. She was not cute, not little and not young. She was fun though, she was always smiling, laughing, giggling and ready to joke around. She was a delight to be around. The wife thought about it for a moment and realized she loved being around her just as much as that group of men. A few weeks later, the husband and wife saw her at a different store. She was angry at her daughter and was not being the joy she always was at her work place. Instead, she had a bitter, ugly snarl. The husband saw her and remarked, Where have I seen her - she looks familiar? He was stunned when his wife told him who she was. She looked exactly the same - same size, hairstyle, clothes - but she was lacking one important thing. Her glorious smile was missing. It is what made her cute, sweet and drew people to her. Everyone is drawn to a smile and wants to be friends with those overflowing with goodwill. Be happy and have fun - our lives are much too short to be a snarly, ugly hillbilly!

Write it down!

2011-11-19T20:50:00.000-08:00

I wish I would have been more consistent with a journal or just writing down the things that we experienced and learned from day to day. It's been like a New Years resolution for me, the intention was good, but never continued all the way through. I read an interesting verse in Jeremiah today that talks about this subject.

Jeremiah 30:2

Thus speaketh the LORD God of Israel, saying, Write thee all the words that I have spoken unto thee in a book.

The Lord told Jeremiah to write down the words that He spoke to him in a book. There have been so many times that I wish that I would have jotted something down from a sermon or lesson. There are days when a verse jumps out and really touches my spirit and I think - I need to look at the cross references on this verse, or spend more time on this chapter tonight when I get home from work. Since my memory is as it is, I would definitely be better off to write down the words He gives me as soon as He speaks to me. I always love reading the cards and notes Charles and I have given to each other over the years. How fun would it be to add to my collection the personal notes from God that he spoke directly to me each day. I have referenced notes that I have taken, or things I have jotted down, reflecting and remembering the things God showed me at the time I wrote them down. I have used my notes to share with others who may be going through something similar. A few particular verses that stand out as I flip through the pages were these verses:

Psalm 43:5 King James Version (KJV)

⁵Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God.

Psalm 43:5 New Living Translation (NLT)

⁵ Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!

1 Peter 5:7 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)

⁷ Give all your worries to him, because he cares for you.

Do you ever have one of those days, that you just feel sad? It just feels like your spirit is weighed down. I was having one of those days when I came across these verses and happened to write them down. They lifted my spirits that day and I praised God. It wasn't too long after that day, one of my dear friends was very down and discouraged. I shared theses verses with her, and guess what? They lifted her spirits too!

If the Lord felt it was important for Jeremiah to write in a book the things He spoke to him and wanted him to know, I'm sure He would like us to write in a book the things He speaks to us too. It not only helps us remember what He says - it is something we can use to help and encourage others around us. Praying I will be more consistent in my writings and that you will too!

Friends are a Good Reward!

2011-11-18T21:34:00.000-08:00

Today is one of my dearest friends birthday. She turned 70 today. Happy Birthday Janet! It was fun talking with her today, catching up and planning a get together which will hopefully happen soon. I had the priviledge of working with her for several years and spending many a day learning from her. She is one of the hardest working people I have ever known, one of great integrity and character. I am thankful for her friendship and the bond that has grown strong over the years. We were a good team, always ready to lend a hand to one another to be as effective and efficient as possible with the tasks we had to complete each day. She is always ready to listen, share, encourage and talk. A good friend is such a treasure. The book of Proverbs says, in order to have a friends, we must be friendly ourselves. It also talks about how two are better than one as in the verse below. I can remember many times that our encouragement and help for one another was the one thing that made us keep working, going, and trying to do our best. I'm so thankful for my sweet friend and pray you have a dear friend too that not only blesses you, but to who you are also a blessing!

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 ESV

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!

The Yellow Bridge

Later

Revising

ré·su·mé

Keep Going

Going, Asking and Taking that Step

Super Bowl Sunday

The day

The Glad Game

The Breakfast Club

Great Night

Ho Hum Kind of Day

Made me think...What Power!

Home Sweet Home from one of the best vacations ever!

Shopping and Swimming

Rainy day

Taking it Easy

Red Barn, Anna Maria Island and Siesta Key

Myakka State Park - Alligators - Amish Restaurant - Swimming-Golf-Shuffleboard

Manatees, Edison, Ford and Bass Pro!

Gramma and Grampa

Meeting Some Special People

Tampa here we come!

Preparing for Lift off

Worn Out

Ok so what do you call this.....

A Good Name

Using What We are Given

Ring Toss

Always carry your flashlight!

Psalm 139

I Cannot Hide From You (Psalm 139)

by - Greg Long

Don't Worry it Weighs too Much!

Ranch Dip

Prayer Journal Cover

Complaint Department

Journaling

The King's Footprints

Footprints in the Sand

Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,

Favorite Scriptures

Praying for changes soon

OOOOOOOOOO that was foolish! - Don't be an Alligator!

Hoarders - Where are your treasures?

Last day to relax

Happy New Year

New Years' Eve

Time

Misc

Soul Surfer

Cleaning Day

Relaxation Day

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas Eve

Non-Stop till you Drop!

Yeah! - Christmas Vacation

A Healthy Snack

Everlasting Love

God Always Provides

Playing around with our journals

Poor Unfortunate Souls

Just Being Still Today

Psalm 46

He Hears and Listens

The Path

Ephesians 6:10-20

Advent Calendar 2011

Happy Birthday!

Buckwheat and Milk

Never Gonna Steal My Joy

John 15:11 (Jesus speaking) "I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete."

I had know idea Mandisa had a song about this very thing! She is awesome - she was my pick on American Idol! Even though she didn't win Idol - I am so glad she is doing well in the christian music market. She has some amazing songs!

I have included the lyrics to her song below as well as the link to youtube - if you would like to listen to it. Hope you enjoy!

MandisaSteal My Joy lyrics

Not Easily Broken

What a Great Comfort!

Psalm 106

Christmas Parties

Praying for Wisdom

Mandisa
Steal My Joy lyrics